Do you believe your significant other should know how much money you make?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Yeah

Nah

[Twodogs0525]

Yes, I've never kept it a secret. One thing I didn't think about, was the amount of money I had in the bank. When my wife found out, after we were engaged, she thought I was intentionally keeping it a secret from her and was hurt. I just didn't think about it. I knew she wasn't a gold digger, because I wasn't making that much when we met.

[NathanDavis]

trust is a must...

if you don't have it on the other and also yourself... then don't get into a relationship yet, lol

[Beckybooboo]

Only when it's important in the relationship. Bringing it up early in a relationship is kind of tacky. I didn't know how much my husband made until he had me pay a bill through his checking account about six months into our relationship.. Yes, I did some some snooping but I already had an idea, because I knew what he did for a living.

[Nikki1989]

Money is one of the leading causes of relationship conflict and divorce, and secrecy often exacerbates the problem. You would have to be a real doofus to want to take that risk.

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode relationships, love, red flags and all that spicy stuff for you.

Yes, your partner should know how much you make, especially if you’re serious and planning a future together. Money secrecy is a quiet red flag. You don’t have to show pay stubs, but clear honesty about income, debts, and goals prevents fights, resentment, and “money ghosting” later.

[queenofcardio]

Salary sure but I don't think they need to know the exact amount.

[Alex-Snow]

Sure why not, it is best to be honest

[Anonymous]

Sure, but it's not that relevant.

[Abbycado]

Don’t care.

[SueShe]

Is that AbbyAi talking?

[jahaims]

Duh.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes.