Is seeing a guy only once a week really a committed relationship?

[Anonymous]

Living with parents in a senior apt , no daily call on phone, how is just seeing a guy 1x a wk, missing one week not meeting , alone at market , stores, a comited relationship with a boy? 😓 I’m confused.

[HollyK21]

Don’t settle for any guys Sugar. I understand you’re eager to move out and have a boyfriend already but be smart about your choices. In any case, you have to do what works best for your relationship, because everyone is different. If he doesn’t mind only seeing you once a week and you’re fine with that too then no harm done.

[Asker]

It feels like forever since I was 18 guys just meet me 1x a wk or less and I’m 28 I’m ready now be with guy daily and feels like my life never progresses im ready have a boyfriend. I never ever had a boyfriend I wasted my 20s crying alone

[Asker]

I’m over meeting 1x a wk I’m ready for a clingy boyfriend daily with me 😓I’m tired live with parents I want a man next to be 24/7

[HollyK21]

You should focus on being able to afford your own studio and move out. Let’s say you found a man, things won’t get serious enough to move in together until like a year, and I doubt you’d wanna live with your parents that much longer.

[Asker]

It’s cuz parents live too far and tired of driving home 1 hr after work, leaving work 3 hours early due to traffic and freeway. I don’t have my own room. It’s one room
And parents need open bathroom all day as bathroom is inside the room. The door is open so all day they can see me laying in bed making sure I don’t Masterbate I have 0 privacy. I’m depressed.

[HollyK21]

I get where you’re coming from Sugar but you’re looking for fast action, you’re ready to move out right now. At least if you focus right now on saving you have a better chance of moving out sooner. If I were you, saving and moving out would be my absolute main priority, not masturbating, finding a boyfriend or having sex. Realistically you probably shouldn’t even look for a man right now, with your current circumstances.

[Asker]

It’ll take til June to save money. I have a lot of bills. I wanted save $1k with my check coming up in 2 wks but can’t as I have to clear a lot of bills I owe so until the end may I’ll hav3 $500 to save. I can’t save more as I need pay car bill & insurance of $600

[Asker]

Then June I’ll find ally have $1k to save as that check beginning of month is free no bills

[Asker]

So for now I’m broke working to pay of my debt

[Asker]

I’m just sad cuz y girls live with bfs and I’ll be 40-50,60 forever n ever living with parents in a senior apt? 😓 y god didn’t make a partner a husband for me? My life is be single forever I’m confused y I deserve that

[HollyK21]

You’ll have enough saved before you know it girl, just stay focused and work hard. I don’t know if you have ever heard this quote before, but “comparison is the thief of joy”.
That means comparing your life to others rather than focusing on yourself will ALWAYS bring you down and make you feel worse.
If you’re gonna bring god into your problems then my response for that is to have some faith in his plan for your life. When you keep complaining every day about the things you DON’T have that other women do, you know what that makes you look like? Ungrateful. You may not feel very lucky in life but you genuinely are. There are so many women your age and younger who have much bigger troubles than not having a room door so they can masturbate or not having a boyfriend. They don’t have a place to live at ALL, they are on the streets. You complain about your car — they don’t even have one. They have no safe place, no family, you are super fortunate and should work on being more grateful.

[Asker]

It’s not about masterbatibg. I’m grown I desire my own bedroom decorate my own house I shud be married decorating my house 24/7 a man following my life. Not alone at a senior apt rest of my life at 28-40

[Asker]

I’m tired 30 years of my life go to store , restraint with mom , I want a man go with me, invite me to his family party

[HollyK21]

You are the one who keeps mentioning masturbating as being the issue with you not having no door. So if that’s not true then maybe you shouldn’t say it so much. I feel like your frame of mind is a bit delusional, based off romantic films or watching some random couple walk by and being jealous. You have no idea what any of their lives are like behind closed doors they could be miserable and toxic.
You didn’t answer my question, which is why don’t you trust gods plan for your life? You’d be lying if you said you do trust him because if you did you wouldn’t be disappointed with him for not making you married already. I also don’t know why you take your life so for granted when there’s women who have it waaaay worse.

[Asker]

I don’t want be single forever I’m almost 30. U don’t understand how it’s like to NEVER have a boyfriend. Year after year everyone gets a boyfriend show u with family member to the party and im alone every year and now family thinks im lesbian or weird or ho.

I want 3-5 kids 😓 no man loves me

I don't know y men don’t wan good girls as a girlfriend and wife.

Mom says I can never ever move out unless I’m married 😓

[HollyK21]

I feel like we’ve talked enough times that you should remember me, because I comment pretty often on your situations. If you remember me then you’d remember me already telling you that I was single until I met my fiancé at 30. Yes I’ve dated but none serious to where I’d call them boyfriend. You need to stop thinking you’re the only woman ever going through something like that, because you are not. You’re just a rare woman that makes finding a man so much of a priority that you don’t hear about it otherwise. We all just go about living our lives.

What’s the point in asking all these questions about rent and what you can afford if you’re never ever allowed to move without a husband? You won’t be out of that room for years! Why waste people’s time on this site asking if you can afford to live in a studio with what you make at your job if you’re never ever can’t move out?

[Asker]

I will move out cuz I truly don’t believe any guy I love will love me back and marry me. I won’t be 60-80 never having my own home forver with parents.
I won’t be 30 like you and find my husband.

I’ll be 50-70 and no guy will ever be my boyfriend

[HollyK21]

You’re 28 babe, 29 soon, unless you have an arranged marriage then you most likely won’t be married in a year or two. I don’t say that to be mean, it’s just the most likely scenario.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like the early stages of a relationship. Is this Sugar100?

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you spot what’s real love and what’s just… convenience dating 😏

Seeing a guy only once a week, no daily calls, no effort when he skips a week, and you feeling alone at stores and in life? That doesn’t scream “committed relationship.”

A committed guy shows consistency, communication, and care. This sounds more like low-effort situationship territory, not real partnership. You deserve more than crumbs, gorgeous. 💋

[Asker]

I never had guy see me 3-5x a wk. just once time a wk and skip a week sometimes. 😓😓😓😓

[Asker]

I’m scared I don’t want be alone forever never 😓 life is hallow and empty

[Nikki1989]

Nah, that is part-time at best.

[Anonymous]

It depends on the situation.

[In_Trance]

so why are you doing it?