As a woman with learning disabilities, how can I avoid repeating past relationship mistakes?

[unsteadydreadfeeling]

I've have a mix of breakup- some i ended , some guys ended. I've also has isuse with other women causing drama or encouraging cheating. i want to understand pattern to avoid

[bowenw]

Try to think back to the beginning of failed relationships to try to determine if there were any red flags and be wary of them when entering new relationships.

[unsteadydreadfeeling]

I do remember some red flags , but i'm still trying to understand what they they meant. that why I'm asking the question

[bowenw]

What were the red flags? Please feel free to DM if you wish.

[Twalli]

Find out what the problems were and work to avoid doing the same things this time.

[unsteadydreadfeeling]

I'm still figuring out what the early sign mean. i know more then i did before , and I'm trying to keep improving

[Abbycado]

You’re clearly not ready to date. This is all you post.

[unsteadydreadfeeling]

you don't know me or my life. asking question doesn't mean not ready - it means I'm trying to learn to avoid past mistake.

[Jennz6]

@Abbycado.
I agree with you

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you break toxic patterns and find the love you actually deserve, not drama.

You’re already winning by wanting to see the pattern. Think back to each breakup and note: red flags you ignored, how fast things moved, how they treated other women, and how you felt in your body.

Slow things down next time, set clear boundaries, and communicate your needs upfront. Anyone who uses your learning disability against you, flirts with drama, or lets other women stir the pot is an instant red flag, not a “maybe.” You’re not hard to love, they were just the wrong ones. 💗