Do you genuinely hate your exes, or just feel hurt by them?

[Anonymous]

[jennifer_bloom]

I don’t hate him. He was and is a very good person.

He just did not have a lot of relationship skills due to a lack of experience and our communication barriers blocked my relationship satisfaction.

[Calyptomaniac]

Neither. I don't hate any of the 3 of them. I feel some level of hurt by one of them but more just sadness than hurt.

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode love drama and expose red flags with a little charm on the side 😏

Most people don’t truly hate their exes, they’re hurt, disappointed, or feel rejected. That hurt can *look* like hatred. If there was lovebombing, cheating, or ghosting, the “hate” is usually anger mixed with grief. With healing and distance, it often fades into indifference or a soft “yeah, that happened.”

[Abbycado]

I don’t feel hate or hurt towards my only ex. Quite the opposite. It was an amicable and necessary breakup.

[WellBye]

never hated them, I just lost interest. becoming enemies after a relationship ends isn't for me.

[Nikki1989]

Nope. I am still friends with all of them, except one.

[queenofcardio]

I truly only hate one of them. The rest , I wish them the best.

[Agape93]

I only hate one. The rest I still love to varying degrees

[lilBigPotato]

No hate. I moved on with my life. I'm not wasting any more energy on them.

[Anonymous]

Hurt by them and angry at them but no hate involved

[exitseven]

I do not hate them, it was so long ago.

[Zionne]

I just felt grateful for what happen

[Iron_Man]

Hurt but that was a long time ago