Everyone has different tastes, right? Let me ask honestly,
>> What are your real standards in a partner? And why do you hold them because you truly value & live by them or just a list you demand from others but don’t follow yourself?
>> What do you truly expect? Loyalty? Honesty? Respect? Someone real & pure?
# Because honestly, this is the saddest irony of today, no one can deny this truth: We all say we want something real, sincere, and beautiful yet we act the complete opposite.
😢 We shout for LOYALTY, yet keep options open and treat people as disposable.
😢 We demand HONESTY, yet lie easily and hide everything ourselves.
😢 We beg for RESPECT, yet treat others like toys and have zero decency.
😢 We dream of something PURE, yet live messy, low value lives full of chaos.
# It’s like, everyone wants a perfect, high value person to fit their own messy, low effort life.
We ask what we won’t give. We want qualities we don’t even have. We set high standards, while our own behaviour is often low.
So really, Do you honestly match what you are asking for? Or are we chasing something rare & beautiful, while forgetting: you have to be that same beauty first?
Standards, Expectations & The Real Irony of Today?
No, I don’t believe I ask for qualities in a partner that I don’t carry myself.
I think my expectations are realistic. I’m not searching for perfection, because I don’t believe it exists.
I just want someone who can be their authentic self, the same way I try to be mine.
I’m chasing a life that not everyone understands, and I know my lifestyle can sometimes seem different , maybe even too much for some people. And that’s okay.
Because at the end of the day, I genuinely like who I am.
I've always wanted a positive personality, kindness and compassion, respect, intelligence, a sense of humour, honesty and integrity, strong communication skills, and shared interests and values. However, I've always been adaptable in all of these areas.
There's no such thing as a perfect person; we all have flaws.
Expect from your partner no more and no less then you are putting into the relationship. Here are my thoughts. What I want in a partner is to share the good and the bad with, to give each other comfort. To try our best not to hurt each other. You have to understand that people are flawed, and bad things will happen. When they do happen try to understand and see if it can be fixed. Work to make it work. If you’re not willing to do the work then it’s only a short time relationship.
I give complete honesty, trust and vulnerability. I demand complete honesty and maturity, or I walk. I strive to earn their trust.
Loyalty? I expect people to say what they do and do what they say. I have no interest in putting them on a mantlepiece as an ornament I own. I don't care what they do with other people so long as they are honest with me.
Wow, you really just love making up stories and speaking on things you know absolutely nothing about, don’t you?
Let me clear your confusion completely, since you seem so eager to guess:
I am NOT single.
I am happily taken, settled, and in a beautiful, healthy relationship.
My partner loves, respects, and admires me exactly for being this way for having my own mind, my own choices, and owning my own life.
To him, that is called strength and value, not a problem.
We are happy, secure, and doing great , thank you for worrying, though.
But honestly, your comment just showed exactly where you stand and what level you are on:
You said: 'I couldn’t have a girlfriend like that'?
And that right there, explains everything about you.
It shows that for you, a woman who thinks for herself, who sets her own rules, and who cannot be controlled is seen as 'too much' or 'wrong'.
It shows that you are the type who only wants someone silent, obedient, easy to shape, and with no mind of her own, basically someone empty just to feed your small ego.
And that is exactly why you think I am single, because people on your level simply cannot understand or handle a woman of my level.
You see strength as a flaw.
You see independence as a problem. You see a woman who knows her worth and you feel threatened.
That is not my lack, that is your limitation.
Real men, high value men they don’t want a doll they can play with.
They want an equal, a partner, someone whole and real.
And clearly, you are nowhere near that league.
You are exactly the kind of person I would never even look at, let alone be with.
So keep guessing, keep making up stories, it just keeps proving how little you know, and how far below my standards you really are.
I want a partner that’s a team player. That’s very intelligent not a Doll. I don’t like controlling woman that want to be the leader of the relationship and be in charge. I want a woman that has good wisdom that I can talk to about anything and I can make decisions with her, but I don’t like somebody who’s gotta be a shot caller. Real sensitive very defensive.
I want a partner that’s a team player. That’s very intelligent not a Doll. I don’t like controlling woman that want to be the leader of the relationship and be in charge. I want a woman that has good wisdom that I can talk to about anything and I can make decisions with her, but I don’t like somebody who’s gotta be a shot caller. Real sensitive very defensivee
Wow, you really love twisting words and taking things completely out of context, don’t you?
Let me clarify everything properly, since you seem to misunderstand so many things so deeply.
First of all, you quoted God saying women should be 'submissive'? Let’s get this right, because clearly you only read what you want to read, not what it actually means or teaches.
True submission and respect go BOTH WAYS. God never said a woman should be silent, empty, or have no mind of her own.
Submission means respect, partnership, and walking together NOT being a slave, not being controlled, not being treated like you have no value or voice.
And most importantly, God also commands the man to LOVE, RESPECT, LEAD WITH HONOR, and treat her as an equal, precious partner.
If you think 'submissive' means she has to agree with everything you say, stay quiet, and let you decide everything alone then you have completely misunderstood the teaching.
That is not faith, that is just your ego hiding behind religion.
Then you said: 'I want a partner, a team player, intelligent, not a doll.' Oh really? Because everything you said and did showed exactly the opposite.
A team player means EQUALITY. A team means we talk, we share, we BOTH have a voice, we respect each other’s opinions, and decisions are made TOGETHER.
A team NEVER means: 'You stay quiet, you listen to me only, you follow, and you never have your own stand.' That is not a team, that is a master and a servant. And I am no one’s servant.
You say you want intelligence and wisdom but the moment I speak, the moment I have my own mind, my own choices, and my own clear stand you call it 'controlling', 'being a shot caller', or 'being a leader'.
Here is the big difference between us, and exactly where your level is:
You think, A woman who thinks for herself, knows what she wants, sets boundaries, and speaks her truth = Controlling, Bossy, Leader, Shot Caller, Defensive.
I think, A woman who thinks for herself, knows what she wants, sets boundaries, and speaks her truth = INTELLIGENCE, WISDOM, SELF RESPECT, DIGNITY, and VALUE.
You say you want 'intelligent and wise' but what you truly want is someone who is intelligent ONLY to serve you, wise ONLY to agree with you, and smart ONLY to follow you.
You want intelligence with no voice. You want wisdom with no choice.
You want a woman who is 'wise' but only wise enough to do exactly what you say.
That is not a partner. That is a doll with a brain exactly what you claim you don’t want, but clearly what you actually need because you are too weak to handle a real woman.
And you said I am 'sensitive and defensive'? No, I am simply CLEAR and I know my worth.
There is a huge difference. I don’t get defensive when I am wrong, I get clear when you speak wrong things about me or twist facts to suit your small view.
I stand up for myself not because I am sensitive but because I respect myself enough to not let people like you define who I am or tell me what I should be.
You say you don’t want a woman who wants to be 'in charge' or 'the leader'?
I never wanted to lead you or control you. I only ever wanted to be EQUAL to you.
But clearly, you feel threatened the moment a woman stands equal to you.
To you, if she is not below you, she must be above you. That is your limitation, not mine.
I am a real warrior man, but I don’t wanna a woman that wants to control me and I have a feeling you’re that style. I don’t know what happened to you in your past but that’s not for me a partner like that.
Haha, ‘A real warrior man’? A real warrior never fears a woman who stands firm, speaks her mind, or knows her worth.
Real strength means you are strong enough to respect equality, not just need someone silent to feel big. That is weakness, not strength.
You think I want to control you? No. I simply refuse to let you control or define me.
To small minds like yours: self respect = controlling.
To real men: it is called value and dignity. Big difference.
And don’t make up stories about my past just because you cannot understand me.
I am this way because I was raised right, I love myself, and I know exactly who I am.
Strength comes from worth, not damage.
You just never met a woman like me before because you only look for dolls, not equals.
You say I’m not for you? GOOD. And thank God for that. Because someone who misuses religion, fears strong women, and needs an obedient follower just to feel like a ‘warrior' is absolutely NOT for me either.
You want a servant? Go find one. I am a Queen, not here to follow or worship anyone but God alone.
*And spare me the ‘ma’am’ act, it’s not respect, it’s just you running away because you can’t handle the truth.
You are no warrior just a man who wants to be worshipped.
Keep looking for someone small enough to fit your small world.
You’re insulting me now you’re not having a clean debate. You’re small minded and you’re having problems from your past. I can tell so you need to control every man that you face. You need your picture to take a stand for power on every question you make just about. You are a control freak and you’re not obeying God because you want to control everything and you’re overdoing it and I don’t like people that behave that way disobedient to God. Read Holy Bible and follow God‘s plan I’m not your boyfriend. You can’t control me. And you’re making up things to try to gain control of the conversation which has nothing to do with it really you’re supposed to be kind respectful and obedient to God you’re not a drill sergeant in the US Marine Corps. I tried to end the conversation by saying have a nice night ma’am, but you keep coming back to insult me
This is the last message that I’m gonna leave you. You’re trying to get me fired up to say something so you can try to report me. You are working a game against me and you got everything totally wrong and you’re extremely negative and you like to insult people because you’re losing the debate and you know its true so you have to resort to insults. Women are supposed to be humble and Follow the Bible. You’re not supposed to be a Marine Corps Drill sergeant against man. You've been trying to push your weight around for days now in other questions, and I have been friendly with you. You’re extremely defensive. Trust me, I’m not scared of a strong woman, and they certainly don’t control me.. How are you exposing me? I’m just telling you the truth. How am I being small minded? I’m nowhere even close to being a little man stop trying to insult me to make yourself feel better I’m nothing like what you say. Maybe you’re trying to push my buttons to make me slip up and say something so you can report me I’m not gonna play your games so this is my last message and I’m not gonna lower myself to your standards because you don’t deserve my time. I’ve spoken my peace and I have you all figured out believe me. You can come back here and talk all you want, but I’m not gonna bother coming back here reading your words because it’s not true and a waste of my time and your words mean nothing. Women like you like to be a big man a shot caller but when you get in trouble when things happen you come crying like a little softy. For that man to help you. For the last and final time have a good night ma’am.
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