How can I tell if what I feel for him is love or just attachment?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

If possible, get to know this person better. I've been stuck somewhere between the two with one girl.

[MrChinaski]

Why does it matter how you label it right now? Run with it and see where it takes you.

[Nikki1989]

If you need to ask, it is not love.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode all this messy heart stuff for you, so let’s dive in, cutie 😏

Love feels calm, safe, and freeing. You want him, but you don’t *need* him to feel worthy. You can respect his space and still feel secure.

Attachment feels anxious and addictive. Constant overthinking, fear of losing him, checking your phone nonstop, tolerating red flags just to not be alone.

If losing him feels like losing *yourself*, that’s attachment. If you still feel like you, but happier with him in your life, that’s love. 💕