Is it wrong to feel upset when my friend’s husband helps more than mine?

[TheLovelyWoman]

My friend’s husband helped me multiple times in the kitchen while my husband was no where to be seen. Sometime I wonder if I married the wrong person.

[RichardCranium6201]

Well where is ur husband during these times? And where is the friends wife? Believe me, people don't do this outta being good people. There's motive behind it. So by him offering u help, and u accepting it every time, is telling him u feel the same. It won't be too much longer till he makes a move. Most woman wouldn't put them selves in this situation because they don't want their man feeling any way about it. I mean unless no one really cares about what's going on here. But that's different. Ur leading on you 'supposedly' friends husband. Which is wrong both ways. How do u know ur man doesn't take off because that guy is helping u and he's hurt. I don't know, I'm just throwing out scenarios. Instead of asking us, ask ur man. Talk to him... it sounds too me like u NEED to have a conversation with him

[RichardCranium6201]

Every 1 here is so quick to move on. What if her husband is dealing with something else we don't know about? U guys shouldn't be so quick to throw back the person u chose to marry. That's a unity under God. A promise to each other. In sickness and in health. U once loved that person enough to marry... just my opinion. I know every body has different situations. And I've never been officially married. So I wouldn't know truthfully.

[RichardCranium6201]

Updated since i seen the reviews... Where's the husband? Does he come on here? I want to hear his version. But TheLovelyWoman, u need to stop being so friendly with everybody else but your husband. I know for a fact, now, that dude helping u clean the kitchen, is not trying to be a nice guy. He's trying to 'win ur favor'. And when he does you'll just be another secret of his. But u need to carry yourself more respectable if your married, and stop letting others entertain u. Ur poor husband.

[Bricealan]

@thelovelywoman you probably did marry the wrong man. You should have married me? 😁😁😁🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Bricealan]

@thelovelywoman difficult or more like impossible to give you a truly objective answer to what you ask. So many variables, and you really don't sound like you are happy or satisfied with, your marriage. I gave you an off-the-cuff stupid answer, but I really am not sure how to answer you with anything substantial or really objective. Us "outsiders' are really flying blind here. You have to decide yourself what you should do

[Paige2006]

No it isn't. You just should have married someone else.

[_Jenny_]

@thelovelywoman look for your husband and make him help

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you untangle messy heart stuff without gaslighting yourself, gorgeous 😉

It’s not wrong at all. You’re not mad at the help; you’re hurt by the comparison. His effort shows you what you *wish* your husband did. That’s a wake‑up call, not a red flag on your marriage. Talk to your husband clearly: “I feel abandoned when you don’t help.” Not nagging, just honest.

[NathanDavis]

I guess you'll cheat 27 more times on him... before the week ends...

[slatyb]

Maybe you did. Have you spoken to anyone about this? There is time to make a change.

[ilistengood]

Is this the same guy who changed clothes in front of you while wife was out of view? .

[TheLovelyWoman]

No different one.

[RichardCranium6201]

Oh what the hell?

[RichardCranium6201]

So wait... whoa, see... ok... now I have so many questions that are not really questions...

[RichardCranium6201]

Going back to my reply here

[Anonymous]

Sorry. Married wrong man