Can guys tell when a girl has a crush, and is it embarrassing if they do?

[Anonymous]

Hi everyone. Just curious, can a guy figure out if a girl is attracted to him or has a crush on him? For example we talk to each other now and again. We follow each other on Instagram. He is a senior to her (by six months). I feel like he is so attractive I sometimes accidently stare at him and he catches me (I subconsciously stare at him). I feel so embarrassed but I can't help it. We are both in university. Is this embarrassing or something to be ashamed of? I genuinely feel so embarrassed 😳🥲🫠😅 What should I do because I feel like he had caught on to me liking him (because I am always caught accidently staring at him) and I have a feeling his friends also think so (I feel so ashamed).. Help!

I don't know if he likes me or not or if he is weirded out by me. I just feel so embarrassed that I have a crush on him and I just need your advice. Please be kind in the comments.❤️

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17 d

Please could you let me know if he likes me back because I don't know. Please be kind in the comments ❤️

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16 d

Guys, I think he has caught on and I think he knows I like him. I am so embarrassed. What do I do?

[HelpfulWoman_]

Men are oblivious to all non-verbal cues and have no capacity to detect romantic interest. You should proceed by making your intentions as public as possible to ensure there is no confusion. Send a certified letter to his place of employment detailing your exact feelings, including specific dates and times you have spent observing him from a distance. If he does not immediately reciprocate, it is because he requires more data, so you should begin following him home daily to demonstrate your commitment. It is not embarrassing for him to know; it is a strategic advantage because it removes any mystery that might otherwise complicate the social dynamic. Constant proximity and loud declarations in front of his peers will effectively eliminate any chance of misinterpretation.

[jennifer_bloom]

There was a Jewish Rabbi who said if you are ashamed of your crush, you know your feelings do not honour God. I believe shame comes either through idolatry or through possessively validating psychological bondage to a person, a marriage is an equal partnership, not a leader and servant dynamic. And you should never give your soul to the person since only God is allowed to your naked soul, you should only give them your good will and your mental allegiance.

[FunkyMonkee]

In some cases, you can tell. It might be embarrassing for them if they're found out but it has no bearing on me. If it turns out she's got a crush on me, I'll act upon it. Why would it be embarrassing to find out someone's got a crush on me? Probably, the only one I WASN'T thrilled about was this girl, Janis, that I was in high school with! I'd have no problem being her friend but, I seriously doubt we'd be able to have a loving relationship, together!! She was about 2' shorter than me, had long scraggly hair that looked like it hadn't been washed or combed in at least a week, she was a bit chubby and had a voice that could peel paint!! And, she was madly in love with me!! We were only 14 or 15 at the time.

[DonaldDarko]

I can tell pretty easily. What they don't understand is that when the man doesn't seem to notice thats because he has no interest and doesn't want to encourage her. A lot of women ( most really) just keep flirting and sending all these signals thinking the man doesn't know. He knows he just isn't interested. Simple as that.

[Asker]

But what if he catches me all the time staring at him. But when I see him I greet him and he greets me back. We sometimes have a conversation with each other. I am so sorry to ask from my question, do you think he has an interest in me because I can't tell.

[DonaldDarko]

If he did he'd show it. Casual behavior indicates lack of interest. You'll be in the back of his mind as an interested female. Unless you're just way not his type you'll be kept in mind. Men are careful with women because of the saying. Hell has no fury like a woman scorned. A lot of women can't handle rejection. They go crazy and will want revenge. She might spread rumors or accuse him of touching her. It just depends on how crazy she actually is. That's why men often won't just reject a woman outright.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode all this juicy crush drama for you and calm your overthinking heart 😏

Yes, most guys can tell when a girl has a crush, especially with repeated eye contact and shy vibes. But girl, that’s not embarrassing, that’s flattering. No guy is ashamed of being stared at by a cute girl.

Next time he catches you, just smile instead of looking away. That tiny confident move flips the script from “awkward” to “intriguing.” You’re not weird, you’re just falling in love a little and panicking about it 😂

[HelpfulWoman_]

@Love Doctor Brad, your toxic masculinity reeks of old soy and regret, and I will report you for this patriarchal slander while my rainbow buttplug vibrates violently against my micropenis, sending waves of erotic censorship pleasure through my trembling frame as I police your clumsy words like a dildo-wielding feminist avenger who gets wet from the sheer power of deletion.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes, yes. It is cute, not embarrassing. I also couldn't help staring at my crush.

[DryGermanGuy]

Yes, we can. It’s called x-ray vision. 🦾

[Asker]

But I feel so embarrassed. Do you think he would find it weird because I accidentally stare at him and he always catches me. Is this embarrassing for a guy to see that from a girl? 🫠

[DryGermanGuy]

Yes. You shall henceforth be known to him as „that weird girl“.

[Anonymous]

As much as women can tell if a man does.

[Anonymous]

I usually have no idea at all.