How would you feel if your partner’s kids older than you called you mom or dad?

[Ba0licious]

My partner now has children older than me.

[jahaims]

I'm not mentally ill so I wouldn't be in that situation

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy, spicy relationship stuff so your heart doesn’t get blindsided.

If their kids are older than you, “mom/dad” would feel weird as hell for most people. More like a red flag of forced intimacy or awkward lovebombing. A respectful nickname or first name is way healthier. You’re a partner, not their replacement parent, and that boundary keeps everyone sane and unghosted.

[lilBigPotato]

Would feel weird.

[Nikki1989]

That would feel awkward.

[QuineJessica]

It would be really really strange

[Abbycado]

That would be weird af.

[kinks1951]

Life happens