Phantasize about pregnancy?

[Anonymous]

He is 10 years older than me. He lives in the US and I live in Europe. We had a short liaison when he was in Europe. He always said, he does not want us to have a problem - me getting pregnant.

He broke up when he returned to the US.

After a while he wrote he phantasizes of me being pregnant. He has grown kids, in Europe, and I never wanted.

Can anyone explain these unexpected imagination? What's the benefit of texting - miles between us.

When I registered I had problems and now the age is wrong. I am 40.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy heart stuff and turn it into something that actually makes sense, babe 😏

His pregnancy fantasy is emotional, not practical. It feeds his ego, masculinity, and desire for emotional control: “I’m the man you’d have a baby with.” Classic fantasy, zero responsibility. The distance makes it safe for him to play pretend. For you, it’s a red flag if you never wanted kids. That’s not love, that’s projection and a bit of romantic role‑playing.

[BadApple69]

Same thing I’ve told my current girlfriend. A lot of guys want children, and a pregnancy brings people closer together.

[Asker]

He said in the beginning he is too old and doesn't want children.

Why the change?

[BadApple69]

Because our brains say one thing but there is this little voice from our soul that says…. Yes, let’s have a baby.
But that little voice is affected by who we are with also. If it’s someone we really care for that voice starts to speak up

[In_Trance]

Waste of time

[Asker]

Probably. Always hard for the heart to walk same way with the brain.

[DryGermanGuy]

Welcome back, Fräulein.

[Anonymous]

It's not so unusual fantasy.

[Asker]

Pregnancy was always unsexy. What's so hot if a woman is pregnant? Her body changes and maybe she keeps more belly different boobs.

[Opinion Owner]

I know what you mean, I don't think it's hot.