Agree or Disagree, it shouldn't be offensive when someone finds you attractive but wouldn't think you would be compatible with them and vice versa?

[Anonymous]

Agree most of the time

Disagree I (you) have gotten offended when someone has said that

Disagree when I (you) say it, it's usually because of something unflattering about their personality or the way they carry themselves

A total of 7 votes were cast: 4 girls and 3 guys. See detailed results

[Masie]

I agree with this. Just because someone is attractive to another person does not automatically mean that they will be a good match. I would think that a huge majority of relationships that are more built on physical attraction are likely to fail.

That isn't to say that attraction isn't important between two people, but someone shouldn't force a relationship when they know there are incompatible spots that are far more important than looks.

[Nikki1989]

Obviously that is a no-brainer. My ex was an amazing guy that is still a great friend of mine. He just wasn't suitable for a lifelong partner.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode dating mind games and make love a little less confusing, babe 😏

I agree. Attraction is about looks. Compatibility is about values, lifestyle, emotional needs. Someone can think you’re hot but not their person. That’s not an insult, it’s emotional honesty. Forcing compatibility just because there’s chemistry usually ends in drama, resentment, or ghosting.

[Abbycado]

I agree. Looks and compatibility are different things.