Do you believe that it is disrespectful for a man to say another woman is cute/attractive while in a conversation with a woman friend or vice versa?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

• Weird question, I guess like if we were talking about dating, and I said to my friend, this girl walking down the street that approached me was pretty, but not my type. Or if a woman said, this guy that works at the store is handsome, but kind of a douche. The last one would be if in conversation, a woman that's in a relationship says "I think so and so is cute, I think so and so is cute, like just telling you about people they work with that they find cute? I don't really do this around my women friend, but sometimes my friend will ask me if I find certain women cute?

Yeah Kinda

No, I do this with my friends, but I wouldn't say stuff like that around people that I also find attractive

If you had feelings for each other, than yes

No, I would say that to anyone (even someone I'm attracted to) if it came up

If we're actually friends then no, if we're not friends, than yes

[Lliam]

Not necessarily.

Even when I'm with my wife, if we both notice an attractive girI/woman, I don't see anything wrong with acknowledging that she's cute. I don't have to add some qualifier like "But she's not my type". It's just a visual like when I see anything else that's cute, attractive or beautiful. It's not like I ogle or drool or lust for her. I'm not looking for hookups and my wife knows it.
And I wouldn't comment regularly as if I was checking out every female that walked by. But I might say it when someone is particularly noticeable. A girl might have a beautiful face, lovely hair, or an impressive body.

Sometimes my wife will even nudge me to call my attention to a particularly impressive ass, set of tits or revealing outfit.

We have walked down the boardwalk at the beach and seen hot girls in tiny bikinis rollerskating/blading toward us. We'll watch and then turn as she passes to see her sashaying away. Then we look at each other and silently convey "Damn!" to each other.

One time we were on a ferry in San Francisco Bay. A sailboat sailed past very near and two really cute girls on it raised their bikini tops to flash our boat. My wife grabbed my arm and pointed so that I wouldn't miss it.

A year ago, we went to a frozen yogurt shop near a lake. There were 4 young people ahead of us in line. The girl right in front of me was wearing a beach top that only covered the top half of her ass. She must have been wearing a thong because her ass looked completely bare. She was in her teens or very early 20s and her ass was particularly plump and round.
My wife and I looked at each other wide eyed like "Dang!".
Then I reached out and gestured like I was grabbing a handful of that plush, squeezable softness.
Nobody but my wife saw me and we both laughed silently.

When watching movies, I will occasionally notice an actress and say "She's cute", meaning "She's hot". And my wife occasionally comments on certain male actors. I know her favorites and she knows mine.

We don't have to pretend that we never notice the opposite sex. I view beautiful women the same way I view beautiful art, flowers, landscapes, sunsets, cute puppies or any other inspiring sight.

It's no big deal as long as you are loyal and not insecure.

[BullShark]

Why would complimenting someone and calling them attractive to a friend be disrespectful? Unless she has jealousy issues and thinks she's the center of the world or unless she's got unrequited feelings for you, I don't think there's anything disrespectful about that.

I compliment other girls' looks (respectfully of course) in front of my female friends just like I would with my male friends, and none of them seem to mind or get offended at all. In fact, they might even give their own two cents and agree, adding something like "yes, her hair are really pretty! I wish I had locks like that" or "yeah wow, her eyes are gorgeous!"

[Smashingdoozy]

I think being a able to acknowledge when someone is attractive in front of a partner or potential partner shows security in your relationship.

[jshm2]

Don't be such an insecure wimp. I would slap the ass of an "attractive woman" when in conversation with others and bring her into the conversation, and possibly bed, too.

It's all about letting it all out, and being with those who want to as well.

Obviously in a board room is very different from at ease. But if you're hanging around with insecure people, then you'll be the same.

[RingOfFire]

I generally don't compliment any other female's looks in front of another female. I've had too many bad reactions from females when I do that. Some of them can get angry about it and take it out on you and some other way even when they are not in a romantic relationship with you.

[JesseP1nk]

disrespectful? No. Weird? Yes. Like why the hell are you telling me someone is cute. Noone asked. If woman would say that out of the blue while next to me i would think she tries to get me jealous or start some sort of fight or an argument. Other than that whatever

[Bricealan]

No, certainly not disrespectful, and unless the woman companion is 'insecure' about herself, it should not bother her.

[NathanDavis]

if they're asking... they are asking

if they're not asking, then it might just be not necessary

[DrPepper12]

I don't think it's disrespectful at all. I actually think it's open and authentic dialogue between significant others let alone casual friends.

[MisterWack]

“She is pretty, but not my type”.
“He is handsome, but not my type.”
Are both totally acceptable.

[RedInnocent69]

No. Let’s be honest, it’s often pretty obvious.

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Obvious in what regard, my bad? Could you explain

[RedInnocent69]

That another woman is cute/attractive? Girls notice and appreciate a lot more than you give them credit for. 😂

[LiamJHayden]

Nope. Actually my female friends will point out women they think I might find attractive.

[Jackblue]

It is ok, as long as you don't start commenting on her body parts.

[Staximus]

If you're just friends then it's okay, if she's your girlfriend then you better watch out

[Dongie]

No say it anyway.
But I add I would no that she liked this person. If she didn't, not a word.

[Twalli]

My girlfriend knows I find one of our mutual friends attractive.

[noohair]

If you can't handle the truth, I am the last person that anyone would want to talk to.

[Unit1]

Nothing wrong with that.

[rienna888]

No as long as it’s not the girlfriend

[Anonymous]

Yes, I think it's kinda disrespectful.

[jojouzumaki]

No it wouldn’t be.