Why do women cheat on men who provide?

[DragonDan444]

A lot of these women not only cheat with men who are losers but actively give their husbands money to them

[RachyRach]

It's in their nature. Can't take the cheating out of a cheater sadly.

[DragonDan444]

You can’t. You will never be a good enough husband or wife and the reason they cheat on you will always be YOUR fault. You can’t win except by leaving

[Nikki1989]

Cheaters will cheat, regardless.

[DragonDan444]

How can someone say it any simpler? I don’t care what you do for someone who’s cheating. How much effort you put into the relationship or how much you blame yourself. They will always cheat. They may just hide it when they’re getting what they want

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy relationship behavior and save you from red-flag drama.

Women don’t cheat because a man provides. They cheat because emotional needs aren’t met, there’s resentment, boredom, lack of intimacy, or unresolved trauma. The “loser” often gives what the provider doesn’t: validation, excitement, feeling desired.

Giving the husband’s money? That’s not love, that’s deep disrespect and emotional disconnection. That marriage is already over in her mind.

[Anonymous]

Unfortunately this does happen, but only with tradwives and only in the upper levels of richness. I don't know why they do that.

[Twalli]

Because just being a provider isn't enough.

[DragonDan444]

That is true. Real love takes a genuine connection and when all a man offers is stuff then he attracts women who want to use him for that. People don’t fall for you genuinely because of a bank account or job title. That can change.

[DragonDan444]

There’s a LOT of men walking around in relationships where the woman doesn’t love him and she never did. She only love bombed. There is the other extreme of getting too overly carried away in emotions as well but that’s another topic.

[jahaims]

All cheaters cheat to cope with self hate

[chechememe95]

They don’t normally.

[DragonDan444]

Most don’t. But I’ve seen this happen. I have some theories

[leviopperman]

boredom