Men, how much do you enjoy hugging and kissing in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I've never been in a relationship for multiple reasons (no men in my social circle, too busy with my studies, etcetera), I confess I don't know what men are like in relationships.

Yes, every individual is different from others in some ways, but still, I'm curious to know if men like hugging and kissing as much as women do.

[Anonymous]

I assume it's enjoyable. Or why would people do it?

I just think with how inconsistent and selfish people are in this world, how can you ever view it as anything other than an extension of their own vanity rather than an expression on their love? Whenever someone wants to hug me i think "why"? "Are you doing this for you?". "Because you're certainly not doing it for me". Because if you loved me you wouldn't obliviously hurt me a 100 times before you want to then give me a hug. Same with a kiss. "Are you expressing your affection to me me?" "Or are you really just indulging your own feelings". So many women can actually have a multi-year relationship with a guy without ever actually including him.😆 And women wonder why so many men could care about relationships anymore.

[Asker]

What does ''without ever actually including him'' mean?

[Opinion Owner]

I just mean most the women on this site have so much trouble with relationships because they generally meet a man. They see something in him that she likes. She at his behest, forms a relationship with him. But from then on is typically where the actual relationship ends. She never really gets to know the man she's with. She projects onto him everything she wants him to be. You don't have to be a rocket scientist to deduce that as things don't line up the relationship's eventually falls apart. Then she accuses him of lying to her (and to be fair some guys are lying because they're just trying to get laid. But again this is back to my point if she'd actually gotten to know him...) she breaks up with him and then is bitter for how it all happened. Not taking responsibility for the role she played or the choices she made that brought her to that moment. And some women (A lot of women on this site repeat this pattern, again and again).

[AviatorTom]

I enjoy hugging and kissing, whether it moves on to something else or not

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode relationships for you and sprinkle a little flirt along the way 😏

Most men absolutely love hugging and kissing, but many are shy to show it or were raised to “tone it down.” Once a guy feels safe and wanted, he usually turns into a total cuddle addict. Physical affection makes him feel admired, not just desired.

Trust me, give the right guy consistent hugs and kisses, and he’ll melt for you.

[NathanDavis]

I do like it, yes...

"as much as women do" I am not sure on how to measure that... different people like different things...

[Anonymous]

I've never been close to a relationship, but I know I'll enjoy hugging. Probably kissing, too.

[exitseven]

It was always a treat.

[AngryCarl3]

I might like it if it ever happened.

[dudeinohio]

Like it a lot

[Iron_Man]

Every day

[wkhan_87]

Very much