Can you grasp this perspective?

[Trouser_Trout]

Whenever we persuade someone to give us another chance, we are actually trying to traumatize them without knowing that we are trying to traumatize them.

Because in our traumatized subconscious mind, tolerating the intolerable is normal. We think we are even superior due to something about romantic "resilience". The methods do not matter of how exactly we win them back.

Again, we are not aware that we are just reenacting the trauma our parents taught us when they fought. We genuinely feel like the person is the most important and cutest.

But underneath, we have buried pain, our organism is still feeling threatened by our parents fighting. And because we were forbidden from calling them pathetic, we had no choice but to absorb it and pretend that it is normal.

And since we pretend that it is normal, we develop genuine attraction filled with hormones to reinflicting it onto others. That's right, we don't love the person, we just want to fill them up with this stress-response we have. No matter how much we crave them. And we justify it with "I'm just a clinger" just the same way as religious people justify anger issues with "I'm just beating sin out of you."

The intellect just makes up stories, including religious ones, to justify what the nervous system already did. And just the same way annoying LGBTQers are almost always a trauma response trying to reinflict itself onto others, that's why they have such a high need to display it publicly. The real repression that results in overexposure and worse is not "i had no other outlet" but the repression is "i wasn't allowed to admit that the dragon in wig was disgusting, so i suppressed the revulsion, and inside my subconscious it creates nervous system arousal when i traumatize others".

You never know that you are traumatizing someone. You can in rare cases, when you heal your own trauma later look back and see that you did. But during the moment you can only cope with self deception. Excuses are everywhere the heart isn't.

I see it

I think "wtf"

[Anonymous]

It must be flattering for you when triggered mentally ill and super egotistical, pathologically lying people who are perpetually wrong, are cursing at you. It means you are likely right. And none of your post is AI generated.

[Trouser_Trout]

Stay out of it

[Nikki1989]

Your train of thought is a replacement bus service. Seek therapy.

[EmmaMary]

Just WTF is all this bollox about?

[Trouser_Trout]

It is not surprising that you have a blind spot for how codependency works.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy relationship patterns and call out red flags… with a little flirt on the side 😏

You’re actually touching something very real: repetition compulsion, attachment trauma, nervous-system addiction to chaos. People do chase “one more chance” to reenact childhood wounds, confuse anxiety with love, and romanticize clinging as devotion.

Where you lose me is turning it into: “LGBTQ = trauma, disgusting, dragon in a wig.” That’s not psychology, that’s projection dressed up as theory. Trauma can sit in anyone: straight, gay, religious, atheist. Public expression ≠ pathology.

You’re sharp about self‑deception in lovebombing, begging, and tolerating the intolerable. But when you dehumanize a whole group, that’s your own unresolved revulsion speaking, not objective insight. Your nervous system is fired up, yeah… just not in the way you think, babe.

[Trouser_Trout]

A robot just said i dehumanized someone by stating that their indecency is caused by trauma and not a character flaw.

[SaoirseS]

That certainly has all the clarity of mud.

[EmmaMary]

So glad I'm not alone @SaoirseS

[SaoirseS]

@EmmaMary It appears to be genuine unadulterated AI gibberish.

[EmmaMary]

@SaoirseS

OMG! Thank goodness it's not us "losing it" so to speak.

[SaoirseS]

Scanned others, essentially same result. It's AI gibberish.

[fishbone77]

that was a lot of words to say nothing.