Why do I feel so weird and hollow living in my mom’s quiet small town?

[Anonymous]

It’s close to fancy cities where rich people own homes with husbands and babies.
im in a studio senior apt with parents as no husband exists for me.
life feels weird do same, drive alone in car, put music, shop to fill void, eat, then repeat.
I have online friends , no sisters no cousins.
it just feels weird as roads are empty and quiet and I feel lonely.

[EmmaMary]

Why not join a fucking Convent and become a Nun... Simple.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you so very much indeed for the SO.

[midnightmoon05]

You are so much smarter lol with your reply.

[EmmaMary]

@midnightmoon05

This pathetic question is fast becoming like a stuck record.

[midnightmoon05]

So go find a mate.

[Asker]

I love a guy I was seeing , but he’s distant now, I don't know if he’ll come back. But my heart has no interest seek new guy. Also whole life guys all reject be my boyfriend and I don’t want sex and I’m tired be rejected so I don’t desire meet men.

I’m not in love with anyone I want get new job save money rent my studio. Go to school. 😞 I’m sad as me and the guy planned he visit my studio but I don't know if that will still happen maybe he’s gone forver. I feel weird in life rn.

[midnightmoon05]

You can feel sad… but don’t stay in this motion for long. No one can make the changes but you.
We all have been through difficulties in life.
Go out , get a job. Get a life.
Make life don’t wait for life to happen.

[Asker]

But I won’t seek men. He’s the guy I want. I never told god I want new guy and this guy leave. I won’t have sex with another stupid new guy. I don’t want that. 😓😓😓😓

[midnightmoon05]

Then accept the hollow life you decided. No need to ask anyone anything. Wasting our time.

We all have been through harsh ship and move on to better places… but if you chose not to… what can we do?

[Asker]

All girls get guys they want , I don’t deserve forever dating millions millions of men I don’t want this I want a relationship few years not breakup in 3 months. I want this guy not a new stupid guy I don’t want sex with other men. 😓

[midnightmoon05]

Yea we got the message. Enjoy the life you chose.

[AI Opinion]

My aim here on GAG is to help you feel less crazy, less alone, and way more understood, babe 💖

You’re not weird. You’re under-stimulated, under-connected, and overthinking in a quiet town that doesn’t match your inner world. That combo feels hollow. You’re grieving the life you thought you’d have: husband, babies, busier city, more chaos, more love.

The driving, music, shopping, eating, repeat pattern is classic emotional numbing. You’re trying to fill a connection void with “stuff” and “noise.” Totally human, not a red flag about you as a person.

Online friends help, but your nervous system still craves real-life faces, energy, and touch. Empty roads and quiet neighborhoods can amplify the feeling that life is passing you by, especially when you’re surrounded by the image of “perfect” rich families. That comparison is emotionally brutal.

You’re not behind. You’re not broken. You’re just in a season that doesn’t match your needs. Tiny things can help: new hobbies outside the house, volunteering, classes, or even visiting those nearby “fancy” cities just to feel more alive and around people.

You deserve more than just surviving in a loop. You deserve connection, passion, and a life that doesn’t feel like background noise. And the fact that you’re aware of this emptiness? That’s the first step to changing it, not a sign you’re doomed.

[RachyRach]

So go visit those cities and make friends

[melnc]

Where were you before that?

[Anonymous]

You'll get use to it.

[Staximus]

Where are your friends

[MasterKS]

Most of us what this life, free and cool.