What career would you NOT want your partner to have, and why?

[7Phoenix7]

I honestly think someone’s career can definitely affect a relationship more than people realize. Certain jobs come with long hours, constant travel, danger, unpredictable schedules, or situations that might make a partner feel uncomfortable. Of course… trust and communication matter, but I think we all have certain lifestyles we’d struggle to deal with in a relationship.

For me, it would really depend on what the job required and how much it affected our life together.

What career would you NOT want your partner to have, and why?

No way…

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to mix real relationship insight with a little flirting and fun, so let’s get into it 😏

For me? Anything with constant danger or zero stability: soldier in active combat, extreme stunt worker, or 24/7 on-call jobs like trauma surgeon. Not because it’s “bad”, but because living in constant anxiety, long absences, emotional burnout, and always feeling like I’m competing with the job? Huge red flag for long-term peace and intimacy.

[HawkPerception]

Completely agree. Career matters a lot. It's literally how someone chooses to live their life, so it says a lot about them.

For me, being a nurse would not be a bad career if I didn't know it had such a high infidelity rate. Because it does take a nurturing kind of personality to do it. But the stats don't lie.

Then there's a bartender... I'm not completely against it, but they tend to be pretty social and get a lot of attention with guys hitting on them daily. The fact that they'd choose a job like that says a lot about them. I think conservative girls who only want the attention of their partner are much more enticing.

They say to never date an actor or actress because they can fake their personality very easily and you don't really know if they're being real with you or not. It's literally their profession to play different personalities and roles, so yeah... I wouldn't trust that personally.

I wouldn't date a personal assistant of a man either. Maybe I've watched too many shows, movies, and porn that I'm a little unfairly biased towards that, but I'll stick with it.

I don't think I'd date girls with masculine heavy labour jobs either, like construction, firefighter, etc. If you choose a job like that, it's likely you're a tomboy and really strong about that "strong independent and empowered woman" that doesn't need a man. I'd rather just avoid that altogether and save myself the hassle.

And finally there's obvious stuff like OnlyFans and porn. I'm sure there's more but those are the first that came to mind.

[Bricealan]

@HawkPerception That leaves out just about everybody.

[HawkPerception]

@Bricealan Go away man. We all know you love you OF and Porn girls. You can have em

[Telekinetic-Potato]

My career has always put a lot of strain on relationships. I'm constantly working, even when I'm home. Sometimes with barely any notice. On Monday I might find out that I need to get in a plane and leave for a few days by Thursday.

I could get a call at 5pm and need to be somewhere at 10pm and not get to leave till the next day.

So for a woman you're asking a lot from her. I kinda hope I find one who does similar type of work.

[KostasKouvalis]

Any sort of law enforcement. I have no respect for snitches and the way cops in the U. S. operate. And also, if I committed a crime, even a minor one, she would be required by law to report it, and if I got probation or jail, she would be legally required to cut off all contact with me. Fuck that! I need a woman who's loyal and trustworthy

[thegreenyogi]

Probably anything to do with the armed forces for the simple reason people who work in that sector are holders of firearms and paradoxically i wouldn't feel safe because in a moment of anger or an argument that gun could get pointed at me.

[Jersey2]

The weapons are held in the arsenal. They don’t just wonder around with them unless something is going on including training but that is on the base.

[Jersey2]

Wander*

[sage2021]

Anything that would pay him to be nude and sexual in some way.

Otherwise I'm good with anything else that he does for an occupation. Especially if he enjoys his job.😊

[Anonymous]

Politician. Being a politician seems like an easy and quick way to become publicly hated. I don’t want to date somebody who is disliked by many.

[exitseven]

Anything to do with show business. It is just a dishonest way to make a living.

[Bricealan]

@exitseven Why is show business a "dishonest way to make a living"? What do you see as "dishonest' about it?

[exitseven]

@Bricealan it is an industry that is based on illusion.

[Bricealan]

@exitseven I fail to see how that is a dishonest way to make a living? For many actors, what they have to go through and some of the conditions they work under, I don't think many could endure? In many cases it is damned hard work and worth every penny of what they are paid

[RavVid]

I wouldn't want her to be a lady mortician. I'd never feel safe.

[Drumlin2001]

Escort or stripper. I want my woman to be mine only

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

Anything that requires night shift/hours. That's family time.

[astlavista]

I wouldn’t want my partner to be a flight attendant because she would travel a lot.

[Anonymous]

Besides the obvious sex worker be it stripper, prostitute or OnlyFans. I wouldn't want her to be a nurse or a teacher.

[Anonymous]

Prostitute, Female Cop, Taxi Driver, Bartender all no good motherfuckers.

[Marshast]

I am here for the comments! 🤨

[Nikki1989]

Military, police force, politics.

[TonyMetal___1986]

No way, you'd be with a cop? 🤔

[canamlusciouslad73]

S*x worker !!!

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Fight attendant or nurse.

[lunabtrous]

ig its bc of past experiences but military

[RachyRach]

Trucker.

[Agape93]

Law enforcement.

[loveyouoak]

Gynecologist

[Bricealan]

@loveyouoak Yes, he is constantly between other woman's legs! LOLOL

[AngryCarl3]

prostitute

[Darthskywalker6969]

Pornstar 😂