What does it mean when my long-term partner says I have a spell on him?

he's older its not like he's a 25. I always interfere in his plans not on purpose, I alter his life. he's late for important things because of me etc.

So today he said he almost missed his flight because he was so tired. He saud I don't know u have some kind of spell on me. he's said this before

What does it mean when my long-term partner says I have a spell on him?
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