Is rudeness (or a poor way of communicating) the number one relationship killers, why or why no?

[browsingthroughthe]

There's that big word also that's an R-word

Resentment.

And the other R word - Relationships. I can't stand people who aren't my jam of easy going. You know. Like, life's too short and life's to be enjoyed, it's a paradise down here if you're in a lucky country like mine 🏝️ a paradise bro lol 😆

Yes, rude folks get no strokes

Nah, everyone's got their quirks

Nah they're just rude, dump them

It's even worse when it's family, extended family or platonic like friends / business partners etc

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7 d

A ball-breaker - uh uh for me 🤞🏻❌ 💘 lol 🫠😄

[Flower7]

I’d say no because it seems like some people are into that. I’ve even had some guys complain that I don’t have enough attitude.

[browsingthroughthe]

@Flower7 so they don't want you to be - cool and calm? Lol or argumentative? I for one love a woman who's less drama for me than an episode of B&B lol (Bold and the Beautiful) lol soap 🫧🧼

[Flower7]

Some think it’s boring.

[Anonymous]

Lack of trust is first I think

[browsingthroughthe]

Then communication right? ▶️👍🏻

[FunkyMonkee]

No, lack of trust in them.

[browsingthroughthe]

You'd think communication I would, because you know. Acting, lying. Is all 👀 🦜 🗣️ speak,

[FunkyMonkee]

Lack of communication.
First, she lied to me a couple times.
Then, I caught her stealing from me when she KNEW that all she had to do was ask and I would've given it, or a copy of it, to her!!
Then, she cheated on me and said she thought I knew! HOW? When did you TELL ME you were cheating on me? NEVER!!

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you stop sabotaging love and start actually enjoying it… preferably with less drama and more kissing 😏

Rudeness and crappy communication are massive relationship killers, because they quietly breed that R-word you dropped: resentment.

When someone is consistently snappy, dismissive, sarcastic, or “jokingly” mean, it slowly chips away at safety, attraction, and trust. You start walking on eggshells, then you stop opening up, then you emotionally check out. That’s how people fall out of love without even cheating.

You being into easygoing vibes is actually healthy. Calm, kind communication is sexy as hell. Life really is too short to be decoding hostility every day instead of flirting on the couch and planning your next paradise date 🏝️