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I don’t feel respected in my relationship, am I right to think that?

I met a girl on Hinge a month ago. We both have long term in mind and we introduced to each other’s parents pretty early.

within just 15 days she has slapped me twice because she was angry at me. Talking to her feels like I’m walking on egg shells because she dismissed what i say or just gets mad. I mentioned 3-4 times to her that talking to her is scary and she jokes “yea you should be scared of me”

all the financial burden is on me too. I mean i am all for treating my partner, but we have gone on like 20 dates now and she has never paid or offered to pay. I always buy her whatever she asks for, be it clothes, shoes, jewelry, even her protein powder. Accounting all in have spent close to 400 usd within just 25 days. in return i received a religious bracelet worth 2 usd, that too only because my mom told her to tell me to wear one because we are religious.

The way she talks to me sometimes is also hurtful. Sometimes calls me an idiot and says to be more confident, says i walk weird because i slightly slouch and wear weird clothes (it’s slightly ripped jeans and shirts). She said i dress like a homeless person.

i mentioned to her mother that i always look out for her, always buy her whatever she asks for, drop her to office and pick her up In my car daily, and have even offered to wash her clothes because she never gets time to wash them. I told her mom that i never kept her hanging, but i feel like im not being respected as much. Her mom said she understands her daughter is difficult to deal with and that she’ll talk to her.

my partner called me later and mocked me for talking about the money to her mom. She said something along the lines of “bohoo, you spent so much money as if you bought me a set of diamonds. You’re greedy. I supported you emotionally, what did you do for me?”

i got into a pretty heated argument with a guy at a restaurant. She said “you are faking your personality, you can't find any other girl that’s why you are sweet to me and not others”

I don’t feel respected in my relationship, am I right to think that?
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