Is it true that girls treat a guy how she sees other girls treat him?

[Anonymous]

My sister cousin told me that. Need to check that out with you girls

Totally agree

Somewhat

Don't agree

[Nikki1989]

There is a tiny psychological kernel of truth to this, though it isn't an absolute rule. Women—and people in general—heavily rely on social proof, perception, and how they see a man valued by the rest of the world.

[LazerBean]

Then how does the first girl decide how to treat him? 🤔

[worldscolide]

Right, sounds like a chicken and the egg kind of situation.

[Asker]

The point is if she is already seeing other girls reaction will that effect

[LazerBean]

Exactly @worldscolide

@OP how can it work like that if it means the very first girl can't start, though?

[Asker]

The first girl can do whatever but we are talking about the situation when she is already seeing other inputs

[LazerBean]

If girls only decide how to treat a man based on what they see other girls doing, then it would be impossible for the first girl to do whatever because she needs to see how another girl is treating him.

[Asker]

I didn't say only way I want to know the effects of other inputs

[LazerBean]

Then yes, people of both genders are often influenced by how they see others treat someone.

[Anonymous]

It's true to a certain degree for BOTH genders. Psychology proves that.

[worldscolide]

Yeah I don't think so.