What’s the one thing all your partners have had in common that made you choose them?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

In the beginning their good heart and their good moral values , and the way she treated me , and how beautiful she was to my eyes. I treat girls’ the same way I like to be treated in return , so if her and I have things in common , I will definitely date her. But unfortunately it’s a hit or miss on whether her and I are going to last the long haul over the short haul , Sadly people change their minds all the time and allow their selfishness to shine. By thinking grass is greener on the other side instead of just watering the grass they are already standing on. The bottomline it takes 2 to tango and takes 2 to make a relationship last by accepting each other and accepting each others’ flaws , you can’t expect someone to do for you if you can’t do the same for them in return. When a relationship turns one sided , that relationship is pretty much already over. Selfishness is one of the biggest relationship killers , if you can’t remove selfishness for your partner , don’t expect them to do the same for you. I date girls’ that want to be on the same page as me , that want to set boundaries together so we can be on the same page with things , but unfortunately the girls’ I been with wanted me to follow the boundaries and she decided not to , that’s when she becomes my ex. Because she is selfish person that only truly cares about herself , most girls’ I have been with do not know how to take accountability for her own selfish actions and behaviors , she will point fingers before pointing fingers at herself girl , that’s a girl I will kick to the curb immediately because it’s right where she belongs. .

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Wow this is an eye opener question and at first I couldn't answer it because in their own way they were kind of like the same with the same confidence but they were different

And I think With just about every relationship I've had It was because I was trying to save them from something Something they were going through

It's like I pulled them out of that environment and maybe of convenience Maybe I don't know a lot of different reasons we got together and we probably shouldn't have

But if I'm honest with myself it's because I felt the need to help them

So that kind of tells me why they didn't last very long

Because it was probably not true love there was a love there but not like it's meant to be

This is probably one of the most important questions I've ever answered

Because thinking back on it just about every single one of my relationships has been that way

I'm still friends with many of them and it was just a moment in time where a choice had to be made

This is such a good question and I have to be honest about it it's kind of a sad question for me LOL because it made me realize that a lot of things

And it's probably why I'm searching the way I'm searching for what I'm looking for now is so much better and more real

queenofcardio · Accepted Answer

They were all at least somewhat active before meeting me but all became more active after meeting me 😂

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

They were all compassionate people who were sacrificial and cared about poor people.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

My aim on GAG is to decode love, red flags, and all the messy cute stuff in between for you 💘

For me and for most people I coach, there’s always one common thread: emotional safety mixed with attraction. Not just looks, not just lovebombing, but that vibe where you feel seen, desired, and genuinely understood.

That “I can be my weird self and they still stay” energy is the real green flag.

AviatorTom · Answer

All of the women I've dated, and had relationships with, were female and intelligent.

Still-alive · Answer

Brunette... yes i tend to go for the darker haired types lol.

they are really different from each other personality wise... but i suppose (at least in the beginning with my last ex) i felt i could really talk to them on a deep personal level and feel like they got me. Also they both were cool with my video game collection and got them to play with me at times lol

stevenkelly · Answer

Probably emotional connection. I’d be drawn to someone who makes conversations feel natural, makes me laugh, and has a genuine way of caring about people. Attraction matters, but that feeling of being understood and comfortable around someone is what really makes me choose them.

NathanDavis · Answer

they were smart... they were interesting and, they were funny, definitely had a sense of humor... to be able to put up with me, anyway

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

hehe paired with your other Q, it becomes funny! I can't think of any common denominator... Except me

Abbycado · Answer

Only have had two and they really don’t have much in common.

rgb008 · Answer

male, older than me, taller than me. thats about it lol

molonski2 · Answer

Well , they were all very good looking , they were all female , and they were all a hell of a lot of trouble.. hahahaha , sadly correct.

fish5505_87 · Answer

That's a great question! However, , although I can picture what it is, I cannot verbalize it.

exitseven · Answer

They were very athletic except for one and maybe that was the reason I dated her.

Ariesman81Nshiiit · Answer

They were all direct and didn't accept no for an answer.

AgentG111 · Answer

They were female.

Pterodon · Answer

All were born with a pussy and still had and used them and they all could define what a woman is

aceleon · Answer

big tits or ass.

sage2021 · Answer

They all treated me good except for one.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Similar interests.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

They were all girls.

eagle1951 · Answer

they liked me lol

Paige2006 · Answer

They all had a sense of humor

TonyMetal___1986 · Answer

Simplicity and the love of creating a family

Anonymous · Answer

They all asked me out.

Anonymous · Answer

warmth, empathy and good looks

Agape93 · Answer

Loyalty.

Anetinka · Answer

They all very smart.

RavVid · Answer

Slenderness

Darkest-Knight · Answer

They all had a puswa.

Anonymous · Answer

Nice ass.

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