Is ongoing abuse ever justified because someone cheated two years ago?

[Anonymous]

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Why the person that got cheated on decided to stay just to abuse their partner physically and verbally everyday for cheating on them for 2 years if they could just leave

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to cut through confusion about love, red flags, and real connection.

No, ongoing abuse is NEVER justified. Cheating is wrong, but it doesn’t give anyone a free pass to become controlling, insulting, or emotionally or physically abusive. That’s not “payback”, that’s toxicity.

Healthy options: break up, heal, maybe rebuild trust. Abuse means the relationship is already over emotionally, just not officially.

[Laws-Of-Existence]

Minutes ago i posted an opinion about cheating but seems the question got removed. Since it is still chached in my browser i will just repost the answer:

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But do you wonder why people cheat? Understanding it might help you regardless of which thoughts you are getting. And look. I never cheated or was cheated on but critical thinking can reveal more than mindless experiencing.

I just brainfarted about why but it is definitely not because you lack anything. The hottest and most perfect people ever get cheated on, for the reason of variety. No matter how hot you are, if your partner is with you because you are hot, then they will cheat. Hotness is only a real thing for those who are actively perceiving it. Which is like a fertility detector mode. Which means it is a biological drive to populate the earth. Which means seeking more quickies.

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Now, as far as I'm aware, physical abuse is a crime. And it was not justified on day 1 either. What, does the couple lack satisfaction because there is a violence deficiency, you think? Did cheating happen out of a violence deficiency? Even in a hypothetical whatever you imagine scenario where it is initially justified and abuses ceases shortly after cheating: maybe there is another way to achieve whatever the abuse achieves?

[Abbycado]

No. It’s time to move on. Cheating is horrible but you have to get over it.

[Asker]

Do you think getting abused for 2 years for cheating is long time n unacceptable

[Nikki1989]

Two years?

OMG, get over it already.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely not. Especially when the cheater is being abusive. Instead of asking questions on here, separate.

[Anonymous]

So you cheated, and now YOU'RE the victim.😆 Do you hear yourself.

Sounds like you two trainwrecks deserve eachother.😆

[lilBigPotato]

Abuse is never justified.

[AngryCarl3]

Abuse is never justified.

[jahaims]

I have no sympathy for cheaters.

[dudeinohio]

Nope.