What situation would be most questionable or would be most likely to raise your antenna?

[Anonymous]

Your boyfriend/girlfriend has had their last few previous relationships not last more than a year but doesn't say what happened

Your boyfriend/girlfriend has never dated and said it's because the people that they liked didn't like them back

Your boyfriend/girlfriend has a rocky relationship with family but doesn't say why

The first

The second

The third

All

None are bad

A total of 9 votes were cast: 5 girls and 4 guys. See detailed results

[queenofcardio]

I would be curious about his family dynamics but it's fine if he doesn't wanna discuss it

[Nikki1989]

Worrying about such insecure bollocks would be the real red flag.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you spot red flags before they break your heart, babe 💋

Most antenna-raising one: rocky relationship with family but zero explanation. That kind of secrecy smells like hidden drama or unresolved trauma.

Next is multiple short relationships with no reason given. Could mean they’re the problem but avoid accountability.

Never dated is least worrying. Could just be shy, insecure or late bloomer, not a walking red flag.

[LazerBean]

The first and the third. Maybe the third most, though

[Anonymous]

#2 always bothers me. #1 I never had a relationship over a year or even close and I'm pretty normal, not a crazy lady or anything.

[Anonymous]

Secondthe most of those