Well, if he has a penis, That's a pretty good sign he might be afraid of falling in love. Just kidding.
OK I'll be serious now and answer your questions properly. As for a guy fearing dating, it's a lot of the same things I hear from girls. Sometimes it's the feeling of being tied down. Some guys prefer variety. Some guys fear commitment, like it means responsibility, and they're not ready to face that.
Some guys are afraid to date for opposite reasons. Like he's afraid of putting himself out there and getting rejected. Some guys are not afraid of the rejection itself, but rather afraid of it being the wrong girl, because either A: someone else might come along, and he'd be trapped or things will get complicated or something, or B: he invests emotionally, and she rips his heart out, or C: she's just a gigantic slut who will use him like a cheap condom, and throw him away right after.
Both men and women feel this way about dating, commitment, or falling in love. I've heard both sides saying it. It's not always about pride. For the first group... the jackasses, it's more about being selfish or childish, or a fear of growing up. At least by my guess. Sure some of it is vanity. Some of it is pride. But I don't think it all is. But again, I'm just guessing. For the second group, it's more about vulnerability, and the fear of being hurt. Or for those who have been hurt before, an extreme distaste to ever wanna experience that particular KIND of pain again. Because sometimes, falling in love is scary. Sometimes it just sucks. Especially if the other party doesn't feel the same way.
Signs? Don't know. But I figured I'd leave this here as another possible viewpoint. Food for thought as it were. If you bother to think about it later, and wonder if someone is afraid, or just vain and prideful, also ask if what you see is a front. Things are seldom clearcut or there in the black and white.
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Is he male? If so, he probably is afraid of falling in love. Or maybe that's if he's human. I can't remember.
But, what you want to know is when can you tell that a man simply will not allow himself to fall in love "with you right now or any time soon" am I right?
i think if a man doesn't feel safe or sicure they won't fall in love Men are just as insecure as women are they haved to feel they can confide in you!it instinctive..they protect themselves plus a lot of men can't define there emotions like females can
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I don't think such people may even show their interest in the first place, and especially not flirting.
Probably what you're dealing with are people with commitment issues, that's not one and the same.Fear of intimacy?
Good question.
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