Can men deeply love more than one woman ?

[Anonymous]

just interested in responses as we are all supposed to be faithful in LTR/marriages

[InquisitiveMale]

Yes. Men can love more then one women as women can love more then one man. I actually know a married couple like this. My friends wifey has a love on the side that her husband knows about. They have been seeing each other since they were much younger and she has made it clear she will not choose one over the other and my friend has never asked her to do otherwise.

I know they have some rules around it, she has to let him know if she's spending the night at his place, she can't just not come home, but other then that, I don't know how they do it. It's weird but from what I see it works. They both seem happy.

I don't see a man sharing his wife like this unless he loves her unconditionally. I don't see a wife putting her husband through this unless she loves them both unconditionally.

p.s. Loves f***ed up. It's certainly not why is portrayed on the television.

[InquisitiveMale]

They've been together for 9 years btw.

[stubbsy]

The thought of one life and one woman, scares a lot of men, but if I was going to reply with experience, I don't believe you can love more than one woman, because to love is to give everything, and as women often demand everything, then unless she feels you love her, then everything is not being given, so to me, I only have room for one woman in my life, where some men want more, but lusting for more and being in love with more are two different things, so no, in my experience, I don't think a man can love more than one woman, or should I say be in love with more, because if I didn't give my heart to a partner, I wouldn't feel as if it was real enough to want, so I wouldn't want the relationship to begin with,x

[cazza3]

No, not in my opinion. If you truly love someone there is no room in your mind/heart/soul for anyone else. If you fall in live with somebody else then you never really loved the other person in the first place.

[udolipixie]

Can men deeply love more than one woman ?

Probably if said gals are family members as in my opinion guys don't love gals much less love them deeply.

[kheserthorpe]

It seems to me that women don't actually love men as much as men love women.

I'm willing to assume that's not exactly true ... though I don't know.

Perspective is an interesting thing.

[udolipixie]

@kheserthorpe

Neither gender loves the other in my opinion. Gals love the perceived bond they have with the guy and guys love the looks.

LMFAO @ guys loving gals with it being a norm for guys to call gals b*tches, whores, sl*ts, ****s, and advise guys to be a**holes and if a gal says otherwise 'don't listen to women because they don't know what they want'.

Do tell where in your perspective do men love women rather than love women's bodies?

[Anonymous]

In my opinion, you absolutely can. Love and attraction is not something you just shut off like a switch when you're involved. You will still be attracted to other people, and even love someone else, deeply. Love is never a bad thing, but, if it starts creating conflict in your heart, and you must choose a direction, you'll be conflicted and poisoned until you decide. I was deeply in love with two woman at once in another lifetime, and that's what I felt. I ended up breaking my own heart, in order to fill it

[stantheman07]

Think first you would have to define your term you used. "deeply love"? If you mean can a married man love a women "deeply" more then his wife? Iv been married a long time. I would say "no'! Only one women has that "deeply" love! Now if you mean "deeply love" like his Mom or ? This is not like he loves his wife! But both are a "deeply" type love!

[Anonymous]

Yes but they will always love one more then the other.

[Anonymous]

"we are all supposed to be faithful in LTR/marriages"

Really?

Says who?

[stantheman07]

Says the Creator. And everyone wants someone that is "true" to them. Its a basic for being a human!

[Opinion Owner]

Shove it and your talk of the Creator - not everyone believes that nonsense.