At what age do women wise up and stop going for the bad boy/womanizer?

[cromick]

I've noticed most girls my age, 21, say they want a smart caring guy. Yet they go out with the guy who is just looking for sex, or ones that abuse, steal, and treat them like crap with no regard for their feelings. I often see this happening even when they know how the guy acts and about past relationships. When, or what makes them realize, the differences between the ahole and the guy that is genuinely sincere, and when do they actual start going for them and start ignoring the sleeze bags?

I call bs on the whole, they need someone to change, or they like a challenge, s***. Is it simply the way they act, showing a lot of physical contact cause they're trying to get in the girls pants, where the genuine "nice guy" isn't because they actually respect women?

[indian_empress_91]

actually I am 21 and only once in my life I went for a bad boy...i learnt my lesson..so not all girls go for bad guys...some of us learn and realize that it's not worth our time...I'm in love with a good guy right now ...no a great guy...

nice guys are not perfect they can be messed up really bad and be nice ...like I am tired of guys complaining about girls only want bad boys...but a lot of "good guys" out there go for bad girls and get jaded, or they are just not that "good"... if "good" guys were so great, and are so good nearly all around...women would want you more...

bad guys just know how to pretend and be good, and they are fun and out there, they pretend to be the best version of themselves and pick up girls...how do you think girls fall in love with them in the first place?

then the girl is in love/fall with/for them and then the bad guys treat them bad, and then you "good" guys think why the hell is she with him she's so beautiful and nice etc etc, why? she just loves being treated like sh*t? ohhhh nice guys never finish last, she just like bad boys...*whining whining*" Saying things like that when you don't know everything and you are on the outside looking on

this is the same reason a lot of guys get broken hearted, the girl could be the bad or maybe just the wrong girl for him, and they go after women and keep getting broken hearted, like guys fall for the wrong girls alll the time

[beerY33]

Stop with this misconception. Nice guys do not finish last. Not all women want "bad boys," in fact, most don't. Of course some people have bad judgement, but that goes for any gender.

https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=3VXXXX9iVPI

[Anonymous]

Some women, like me, have never been into guys like that.

Some women grow out of it with age, maturity, or after being heartbroken so many times.

Some women never grow out of it.

We're all different :-)

[Anonymous]

People just don't understand that the "bad boys" tend to be actually better looking and more fun to hang out with rather than the boring "nice guys". Girls want fun in their lives because to be honest girls are really boring when it comes to personality wise. It's just the fact that they are quite attractive is the reason why we love their presence but nothing more. Just boring creatures who want a thrill in their boring lives so "bad boys" are the perfect ones to give them that.

[indian_empress_91]

ehhhhhhhhhhhh wrong

[Yarah0]

Its not a matter of age.. Growing old is no excuse for growing up.. its just a matter of taste and how the girl likes the guy to be.. and if the boy hurt her a lot then maybe she'll realize they're not for her..