He didn't wish me a happy Valentine's day?

[Anonymous]

We have been dating a couple months but are not a couple. However we had sex. Should I be angry he didn't wish me a Happy Valentine's Day?

[Anonymous]

Yes, that makes perfect sense. You liked a guy enough to have sex with him, but he didn't verbally commemorate a holiday made to sell Hallmarks cards and candy, so you should be furious with him. It's not even the Feast of Saint Valentine anymore, it's just a pointless day made to sell stuff now and make women feel inferior if their guys didn't buy them enough stuff or such.

Relax. Realize how ridiculous Valentine's day actually is, and appreciate the man for whatever virtues you already found appealing.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Angry over a stupid holiday? I hate to break it to you, but you're emotional and crazy. What you should do is warn him of this before you scar him for life.

[PixieDust]

You're not together so no, you shouldn't be angry... Either he forgot about it or he just didn't want you to get the wrong idea because he's not ready for anything more? You consented to having sex with him so you both got what you wanted. Unless you've both talked about it (and the possibility of it being anything more), better not waste time on that negative emotion.

[RedSmartie]

Absolutely. Just because you aren't an official couple doesn't mean Valentine's Day doesn't exist to you. If I were you, I'd question whether or not he was interested in furthering the relationship. Guys aren't stupid. If they're in a precarious situation with a girl (ie: dating but not official), they're going to remember stuff like Valentine's Day.

[liburnia]

It's such a stupid day. We should celebrate love every day and not just this one day. I need him to show me all the time how special I am to him and that he loves me.
You will learn to appreciate it with years of living with someone.

[martyfellow]

A guy should realize it's a religious necessity to recognize Valentine's Day if you have a relationship that is so close, regardless of how it's defined...

[Premonition]

If I don't Wish you Happy Valentines Day, can we have sex as well?

lol just kidding, yeah you have the Right to be Angry, let your Emotions Flow :)

[Sexycally]

Yeah, even my just regular friends with no benefits wish me a happy Valentine's day.

[Babygurl2012]

No if you are not offcially together then no you can't be mad altho it probably would have been nice to have been wished a good valintines day talk to him about it

[saysrae]

yes, wishing you a happy Valentine's day is the very least he could have done

[Anonymous]

You aren't together. He's using you as an easy lay. You can be pissed all you want, but I bet you'll still put out for him. So what does he care? He has made no commitment to you.

[myhemi]

If he knew it was valentines and did say anything... run! Run away! Oh, and just so someone says it to you - happy Valentine’s Day!

[Anonymous]

it's for lovers, not for newbies

he shouldn't have to. ITS NOT FOR NEWBIES

[GreyEyedZayah12]

More so angry you had sex with him...