The older woman - is she coming on to me?

[Anonymous]

a woman I know who I presume likes the look of me (who is extremely chatty/friendly) asked for a lift to the bus stop the other day as her car had broken down.

i agreed and she started saying that she was single and was looking for a man. she literally said to me that she was "wanting a nice guy like me", she kept looking at me most of the time whilst I was driving.

the thing is, she is much older than me in her 50's, but that don't put me off.

whenever she sees me at the local restaurant/bar, she always comes over and sits with me which is cool.

is she flirting with me or is she trying to get out with me?

I'm confused...what should I do?

thanks for any help

[Seraphic]

She is flirting definately, 'trying to get out with you' - I'm not so sure on that yet, but the signals of flirting do seem so. She either wants to get it on with you or she really does want to settle down with someone (not enough information for me to know.) She's a lot older than you and myself for us to understand too much, but I know that older women usually look for a guy to be with more than dating, but both are a possibility.

As you like her too and you aren't too bothered about the age difference I think you should keep talking to her and find out where this takes you through her behaviour and ask her if she really is looking for a serious relationship.

All the best.

[Gorce]

All I can say is she can teach you a hell of a lot if you go for it.

I say go for it.

[Anonymous]

she's flirting with you. Some people think cougars are great.