An older woman "flirted" with me, is this normal?"?

[Anonymous]

I donated blood. The woman who was working on me was "harassing" me, talking shit, being silly, pretending to be mad at me for funny things. She was being a goofball but at my expense I guess. She told my sister I was cute and asked her if she could bother the hell out of me. Is that normal or was she just weird like that? She was actually very cute and attractive in general. I'm not used to being flirted with so I have no idea what to think. What if I was some hot fuckboy with a supermodel face, would she flirt the same way with them? I'm not exactly good with women and I'm shy and awkward so I imagine if she thought I was cute but shy she might treat me different from other guys. Maybe it's a good thing, I don't know lol.

[Deathcore_Rulez_D00d]

Definitely weird. A couple of months ago (I was 20 at the time), my friend invited me over to one of his friend's birthday parties, and the host's entire family was there. Party was lame tbh. It consisted of like 8 guys our age playing beer pong, the host's 12 year old sister and 3 of her friends (yes they were right by a fuck ton of alcohol and watching guys get drunk), and the host's mom, uncle and aunt, and a couple of other family members. Well his aunt, who must have been in her forties, was flirting with me like a motherfucker. She was playing with my hair, reaching under my shirt to feel my abs, kissed me in the cheek, and kept trying to get me to take shots with her. My friends thought the whole scene was hilarious, and were laughing the whole time, but I was feeling uncomfortable as fuck!

It's definitely weird as fuck for a much older women to be hitting on you. I mean I don't have a problem with girls like 9 or 10 years older hitting on me, but anything older than that is definitely weird.

[HikerDude]

Yeah, older women like younger guys. They're no different than older men hitting on younger girls, they admire young bodies. I've piped down several older women who did that ball-busting routine with me. They do that because they're embarrassed as hell at being so into a young guy. Women are terrified of being judged for their sexual desires.

[Asker]

Aww lol. That's cute actually.

[peachblossomluck]

She was trying to lighten the mood. Some people are nervous about giving blood. At the same time she thought you were cute but maybe she made you more nervous with her flirting?

[splashofyellow]

Some people are just flirty by nature. And some older women tend to test the reactions of younger guys just to see if they still get a reaction they hoped for.

[Astoriana]

She was just being friendly. Jesus fucking Christ. Men think breathing is flirting nowadays.

[Asker]

Then why did she ask my sister if she could flirt with me because that's what my sister told me. I never think women flirt with me, and until my sister actually told me what happened behind the scenes I just thought she was this crazy annoying lady.

But wow, so much anger! Jesus Christ lol.

[Astoriana]

I would recommend you get some kind of social skills exposure therapy, because you need some serious help.

[Asker]

Well as a kid the house I grew up in we lived in an extremely dirty and disgusting place. I didn't have friends growing up because of how my parents raised us. I literally had never talked to a single girl until I was like 18. I'm 30 now And although my social skills are 10,000 times better than they used to be, I'm still not an expert with women. I'm not a player, I can't run around getting numbers and fucking who I want. All I want to do is understand better what I wish I had the opportunity to learn as a child like every other normal person gets to do.

So why are you so upset at me for asking a question? I don't understand what I did wrong.

[Mrchino]

well it's hard to tell since most girls are bad with flirting so you can't even tell if they are flirting or being nice and friendly

[Asker]

That's actually something I heard from a woman. She said girls are getting worse and worse at flirting to the point where more and more have just as much social anxiety as I do even though they may be cute and fun they have a ton of doubts. And I'm like well shit I know what that's like lol. It's very hard to read women especially when you never learned how to talk to them in the first place! I guess all of society is having to adjust with the fact that we communicate so much online lol. That's my theory anyways!

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

@Astrorina😂😂😂😂

[hellionthesagereborn]

Wow women think everything a man does is flirting. Must be really conceited.

[Astoriana]

@hellionthesagereborn I think you're just projecting. You do a lot of that.

[hellionthesagereborn]

I as a man or I as me personally? Not projecting, maybe your projecting? Or maybe you said something stupid and now, realizing the level of stupidity do not wish to own up to it instead deciding to double down in a vain attempt to try and "convince" me, others, yourself that what you said wasn't incredibly stupid and, quite honestly, a statement made out of pure conceit. Seriously, not everything a man does is wrong, no men don't assume a woman is flirting with him simply because she exists, though lest be perfectly honest here, most women do think everything a guy does is flirting, because again the whole conceit thing and a unhealthy dose of narcissism. Just calling you out is all. Now you know so it won't happen again your welcome.

[Astoriana]

@hellionthesagereborn you think you have permission to speak to me. How quaint.

[Kenni]

I'm sure she was just trying to get you comfortable

[AdamED]

A 55 years old woman bought me a drink the other night at the bar and winked at me. Keep going, it's awesome!

[Asker]

Wow lol. That's awesome

[y_tho]

She's already had the old bulls and now she wants a piece of the young calf. 💦

[Asker]

Lmao

[y_tho]

LOL 😂

[Brandonio]

It may have just been in good fin although f you are indeed almost 35 how old was she? She could be a cougar, they do exist!

[Mahir_G]

Peace! You just found Buddhaa!!!

XOXO

Ignorance is the key to Mental Peace.

[slutsdontgetoral]

I used to work in a nursing home. Bunch of 40 and 50 something divorced women who were pretty bold. I think past a certain age they don't give a shit.

[chefG]

yeah, its kinda normal except saying it to your sister. that means she is interested.

[simple-question]

I had a 30 something flirt then hit on me and then she freaked out when I told her how old I am. Hilarious!

[KnightCross]

how old is she? i have already been flirted by milfs too :D :D

[anthonykwn]

I think she's jux attracted to u, have a crush, or butterflies in her dealing with her feelings for u man.

[Anonymous]

She might just have a flirty personality and does this with everyone

[Anonymous]

That's cute. Maybe she sees you as sweet and innocent and she just wanted to loosen you up

[fabulouspancakes]

Probably was just being friendly/silly.

[joe1983]

go for it. I bet she knows how to drive a stick

[Asker]

Lmao good point. I really ought to add that to my list of requirements!

[joe1983]

You may have missed what stick I was referring to

[StefanPander]

Cougar

[CT_CD]

Not normal

[Anonymous]

She sounds weird

[Anonymous]

thats normal

[Anonymous]

Sex her