Relationships

Why did it took me so long to figure out I never really loved my ex boyfriend?

Well he did turned out to be a horrible person in the end. But here is the twist and I finally figured it out after all these years: I NEVER REALLY LOVED HIM. I've been lusting over him just for being my 1st. I was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

How to get over abandonment attachment issues?

I’ve experienced a lot of loss in a short amount of time. I lost my 11 year relationship out of the blue when he was shot and killed. I also lost two pets of 15 years and 12 years around the same time. I’ve noticed I have...

Jumpin4blue

Xper 4 Age: 31

Relationships

If we are exclusive and talk about being in a relationship, how long till it is official I. e. labeled as girlfriend/boyfriend?

We have been dating for 2 months, we decided to be exclusive from the very start and we do refer to our being together as being in a “relationship” but we do not refer to each other as boyfriend/girlfriend. I just want to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

What girl is your type based on traits?

It's fun making these and it's interesting to see everyones differences. Looks don't have to be a factor at all. Also I know Myers Briggs means nothing to most, but I though it would be a fun deepening of character...

Anonymous

(18-24)

It's fun making these and it's interesting to see everyones differences. Looks don't have to be a factor at all. Also I know Myers Briggs means nothing to most, but I though it would

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I love my husband but never really was in love (infatuated) with him, normal?

I do love my life companion of 4 years and father of our little bundle of joy that just turned 4 two days ago. I got married at age 34 and he was 43. The only thing is I never experienced the infatuation stage with him,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Is it ok to ask your significant other to delete someone from their social media? Given that they may ask u the same and u will do it without a fuss?

SEL195

Xper 5 Age: 31

Relationships

Should I tell my boyfriend?

I hope this is not too complicated to understand. My girl friend knows my boyfriend's girl friend. He has told me about her briefly. I haven't said to him that my friend told me about their friendship and that they met on...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Are you cheater or not?

Not in physical relation. Overall in your life

Preeti161101

Yoda Age: 36

Relationships

How do you get over the pursuer/distancing dance when things go wrong in a relationship?

Any advice would be appreciated… I suppose this is quite a common dynamic so I’m wondering how couples overcome it…

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Should I ask him what was wrong or is it nagging?

I was dating this guy for four months, we had feelings for each other but he said that we should not rush the process (we both had a terrible heartbreak in the past) and that we need time till we become official. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Guys, what if you discover your girlfriend/wife have been sending nudes to some guys? How would you feel?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Guys, I think my new guy friend likes me more than as just a friend, but why isn't he making more moves? Is he taking things slow and should I wait?

jennygoldie_04

Xper 4 Age: 22

Relationships

Why my boyfriend treat me like that, I feel like I always alone and he never care to me?

We just started our relationship 7 months ago, but Slowly he change. Many guys tried to talk to me, but I only thought they as a friend nothing more, as a courtesy only and my boyfriend doesn't like it, he told me not to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Why doesn't my husband want to be around me?

and everything i say is a problem, and everything i do is wrong as well, what is wrong with me?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

My ex use to do things to get me to break up with him for a few weeks why didn’t he just stay single or ask for a open relationship?

the first time I noticed he was doing this was 5 months ago his baby mother found out there child was around me when we moved in together. she told him he would never see his child again and called the police on him and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Is It wrong to see someone whos going through a divorce?

This guy and I have been talking, and we click so well. When we would hang out, we would just get food, laugh and talk. We dont exchange flirty messages and we haven't even held hands. he's been separated from his wife...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Should I block him... why is he taking it out on the kids?

I just had a baby Oct 7 and it was a rough on I hate to get a c section. My boyfriend didn't want to take off for at least two or three days after to help me around the house. So we got into an argument and called him a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

I care about commitment but not of god nor church, is this weird?

Commitment I do care. I don't believe in jumping from relationship to relationship endlessly for years. I hate that. I do want a person to spend my life on and have a child. But god and church? I see that as a piece of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Is it possible for a man to be jealous of you even if he is in a relationship himself?

I had been talking to a guy for about 3 months but I wouldn’t call it a relationship. We cut contact because he tried to guilt me about hurting him (still not sure why) and I didn’t agree. Apparently he thought I didn’t...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Do you think a person being cheated on is also responsible for the cheating most of the time?

I'm talking about most of the time

Anonymous

(36-45)

I'm talking about most of the time

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