Questions: Relationships

I asked my girl to go with a mutual friend to a guys house I had let her have sex with , to get us some weed. I felt she was gone for too long I and was angry. I asked her not to smoke a joint with him... she came back, I asked if she smoked a joint she said no they didn't smoke a joint.. but a bowl. I was angry and we began fighting. I kept asking her why she lied and stayed so long.. she said she didn't lie and stayed so long because her friend wouldn't stop talking to his girlfriend, but she was ready to go. Especially since I was making dinner I was mad. She got very drunk and I kept asking her why , why did she lie and stay so long. She got angry and said because he makes me feel good about myself and has a bigger dick than you. She said she was so sorry and didn't remember saying it the next day and still doesn't remember, and must have got frustrated and wanted to hurt me. This was years ago but sometimes we still argue about it because it still hurts. How would you feel? & What is your take on the situtation?

LOL we've been dating for 3 years. She got all pissy and went to the other side of the bed and dang near left me with no cover -_____- lmao.

This was the girl btw:



Anyone know how i can make her get over it? It's just a little bit of fun, not like i was actually fuking a girl by the way.

On the one hand women are saying the reason nice guys finish last is because they only going for super hot girls, and bad bitches and ignoring the nice girl.

On the otherhand men are saying that nice guys are not in demand and even the nice girls they go after throw them to the side and go after bad boys. These girls then get used by man whores (bad boys) and become either sluts or bitches. Some guys also insinuate that women only want to date nice men when it is time to settle down and start a family but don't want anything to do with them when they were younger and hotter.


Observation from this question: https://www.girlsaskguys.com/dating/q1833575-why-everyone-complain-about-nice-guys-syndrome-forget-about-nice

So the question is which oppinion is more grounded in reality: Women's view that nice guys all chase super hot girls, attractive girls and ignore the nice girl or men's views that women don't give a shit about nice guys until it's time to settle down?

I was at a girl's house and had to poop and felt embarrassed to go at her house. This was a while ago and now I poop all the time in public but if I go to another girls house I am not sure if my embarrassment to poop at the girls house will come back or not.

How long does it take you when you start dating someone to not be embarrassed about pooping at their house?

Would you get in a relationship with someone you don't really see a future with, until you find someone better?

Do you do this, or have you ever done this?

Example of your typical average black man looks like:

Men requirements for a girl to be in relationship with him:



1. Be loyal
2. Be kind and show love towards him
3. Don't be a bitch or crazy
4. Be attractive (to him at least)
5. Don't be fat (Just requires self control).

vs

Women's requirement for a man to be in relationship with her:



1. Make more money than her.
2. Be popular or of high social status.
3. If 1) or 2) are lacking then you must be better looking (nice face~Genetic) than her
4. Must have nice car, house, and any other material possesion you can fathom to show your wealth
5. Must dress nice and have nice clothes.
6. Must be certain height and race (genetic).

I'm sure there are exception but this generally holds true for most women/men expectations for each other.