Polls: Relationships

This is mainly to those in a relationship currently but if you are single do you fear you won't be with anyone new in your life?

I feel like my ex was emotionally abusive. I used to really be into her more than she was into me. She used tell me “I didn’t want this relationship, you did”. And when people would ask how we met she’d say “I didn’t wanna date him”. I explained to her how it hurts me when she says these things m. And she’d say “you’re just insecure”.

What’s even worse, she told me about how before we started dating. She went on dates with guys who she really liked and they rejected her. So am I the nice guy who finished last?

I used to be highly attracted to her. She never wanted sex with me, at the same time, complaining that her ex boyfriend didn’t want sex with her. She barely wanted to be affectionate with me.

Even worse, she used deliberately turn me on so she could sexually reject me. Would tell me “come over I’ll lick your balls and your butt” and refuse sex when I show up. Every single time we’d have an argument, even if it’s minor she’d say “you’re getting none”. So I started keeping silent to avoid conflict.

She used to complain that I’m not making her happy and give me reasons why. Which I’ll admit I’m not perfect, I know I have my flaws and bad habits, but. When I’d tell her what she’s doing to make me unhappy she’d reply “you knew I was a bitch when you met me”.

About 3 weeks ago we went to a Thanksgiving dinner at her friends house and I felt like she was kinda flirty with a guy. She seemed very touchy with him. I even saw her put her arm around him. I mentioned it to her a few days later. About how I was uncomfortable with how she behaved with him, and again. Told me “im insecure” and broke up with me. Denied ever putting her arm around him when I saw her do it.

It’s been a couple weeks and I’m still emotionally hurting over her. Haven’t been able to eat or sleep. Having nightmares and visions of her in bed with other men. I’ve dated and had sex with other women since. But I still can’t get her out of my head. What should I do?

Would you be absolutely comfortable and open to be in relationship with a dark skinned person?

Why / why not?

I am 29 and never had a girlfriend. I am only wanting a woman that has never had a boyfriend or romantic bond, especially from her youth.

But my concern is, if a woman has gone into her 20s never having a boyfriend, is there likely a reason, such as being aromantic or asexual or less of a desire to fall in love?

The stereotype is that women are more likely to tolerate a cheater than vice versa. But I believe that is mostly true if she depended on him for money. That financial dependence is lessening in the past few decades in the western world.

Now I think too many men tolerate cheating women.

I am all alone and have always been single. Lately I have been feeling really sand and lonely as if I am missing something...

And there seems to be an opportunity to be in relationship with a dark woman. She is showing some signs and hints of wanting to talk to me more and possibly take things further.

But the thing is she's too dark. She would be my first ever girlfriend. Wouldn't it make me embarrassed in society especially in my friend circle to show her? What if we marry and reproduce dark children?

Am I going crazy? My girlfriend's behavior changed significantly in the last month. We are 120km apart from each other so we only meet during the weekends. During the last weeks she started going to sleep at weird times and she is 20. If she has to get up for uni at 6a. m. she goes to sleep at 8p. m. which is 10 hours of sleep and if she has to wake up later she goes to sleep at 10p. m. and wakes up every morning at 8a. m. I would understand if it was only on uni days but she goes to sleep at 8 or 10p. m. on weekends too! And everyday she takes a 2 hour nap which totals to 12 hours of sleep everyday. The thing is that when she says "she is going to sleep" she still active on Messenger for several hours. I asked her about it and she said that she isn't texting anyone because she is sleeping and that Messenger's activity status is bugged. I researched online and that is true that on some phones it is bugged so I believed her. Until she started working. Two days ago she started work at 8p. m. (the usual hour she goes to sleep) and Messeger said she was offline from until she started working to until she finished her job. She can't use her phone on the job. The situation was exactly the same yesterday. So it seems that her activity status is working pretty well. As I said this situation didn't happen before, we would text and sext late into the night even if she had to wake up for uni at 6a. m. the next day. Now the last time we did sexting was z few weeks ago and she used to love it. I understand that sometimes someone needs just a bit of space and I'm not against it but not everyday for a month. She also started ignoring me sometimes, it takes her a few minutes to respond when she is online. When we talk it seems like she is bored etc. Am I going crazy or is she cheating on me?

Do you need some personal time alone to spend alone or with your friends without your partner being there as well?

where can i find the girl i seek. i searched the entire world. how long until i find her.

What do you think of this statement?

As you mature in a relationship, you learn to spend more Quality Time together, and more Quantity Time on your own.

A shooting happens in the hometown of a couple and the boyfriend has bad anxiety and a shooting occurred in the same place the couple was just an hour before and it pushes the boyfriend to never feeling safe out at big public events, and now the girlfriend wants to continue going out and says he is over reacting. Who is right or wrong in this situation if anyone and how do they resolve something like this?