"I'm scared that if my partner leaves me, I'll never find someone else." Agree or disagree?

Question

This is mainly to those in a relationship currently but  if you are single do you fear you won't be with anyone new in your life?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

I am not scared of a girl leaving me , I am hurt that she didn’t want to work things out with me and fix what was broken, instead of running to someone else thinking they will save her , It’s not hard finding someone else , it’s just hard not knowing if that someone else is in it for the long haul or short haul , and hard knowing if that someone is being honest with you or talking out their ass to you , And hard to start all over with someone new hoping that someone new is going to be better than the way your ex treated you and walked away from you. It’s always a 50/50 chance

LiamJHayden · Accepted Answer

I have never felt this way, but I have likewise never been a victim of one-itis, the disease where people think the other person is the only one out of the billions on the planet who could possibly be the right "one."

thegreenyogi · Accepted Answer

I disagree because being with someone or sharing my life with another person is not my highest aspiration or at least it is my belief that life isn't just about sharing it with somebody nor does that mean that those that choose to be alone aren't worthy of this world. The only difference is that they choose to give what they have to give through different channels of existence that isn't specifically another human being.

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

No fears about this but I don't think I'd ever want to date again if my husband leaves or dies. Rather just stay single for myself but I think I could easily find someone else

Kaneki05 · Answer

The better question is "I'm scared that if my partner leaves me, I'll never find anyone better." because no duh I could find someone else.
I think anyone can find someone else that's easy, but finding someone you aren't just settling for is another question entirely.
And personally I am starting to lean no I will never find someone better. I am still young but I've still never found anyone IRL who's great LDR yes but not IRL. And have a guess to why LDR didn't work, not saying it can't or won't and that I wouldn't try again but it hasn't.
And I really don't want to settle for someone who likes me but I find them against what I like.

cosmosis181 · Answer

I hope I'm never with anyone in my life tbh. It DAMN SURE won't be as long as I'm in the USA. I don't associate with the opposite gender at all now, in any capacity. I don't trust them, and don't want them around. I won't even take their delivery orders or deal with 1 when I go into a store. If I get to spend at least 6 mos annually in Mexico or Ottawa... which is my goal... then maybe I can open up again. I don't fear being alone... nowadays, I know I'm safe that way... and the name of the game in USA culture is... defense wins championships.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I disagree, I am happy with or without someone, there are lots of great opportunities to do things when you are in a relationship, however, there are equally lots of great things you can do while you are single.

Being with someone does not define who I am.

Paulalove98 · Answer

I don’t think I could bare myself to move on if my fiance passes away once we marry, get older, and have our children together. It’d be all so difficult and heart wrenching for me. I told him I’d just want our kids to comfort me and our animals cause no way..:,(

blueonblack22 · Answer

I know this feeling. I broke up with my last long term girlfriend because I knew getting married to her wasn’t a good idea. She unfortunately went completely psycho when I did this and proved me right. This sadly confirmed what I thought.

But dating is tough very tough nowadays. Especially where I live (I live in a deep blue state).

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I'm in my current relationship because I want to be. I love my partner and feel a strong bond. Of course, if we ever break up, it would be painful. But I'm not afraid I won't find someone else.

What probably could happen is that I wouldn't like to create a new relationship. At least nothing more committed than friends with benefits. The reason is quite simple. I don't plan to have more children, I'm financially independent, and I like to be alone.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I know  he  won't voluntarily leave.  If he died on me soon or even much later in the future, old suitors will be coming out of the woodwork along with new ones.  But, none of them are  him .

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I live in Thailand, mate.

They even queue up for the most ugly and useless ones as long as they are ''Western''.

And ''they'' often are attractive as hell, compared to what I suffered to notice in ''Western'' countries' offers. Not saying that even there there might be a gem here or there.

My scared-level is close to zero.

But that does not mean that I'm indifferent to my own present relationship/s.

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

If you believe something like that, I’m inclined to believe you either hate yourself a lot or you have a partner who’s emotionally abused you enough to put that thought in your head

BigDog1989 · Answer

Leonard and penny, when they got married, first tried to sabotage it because both felt that they couldn't do any better. Unfortunately, for leonard it was her looks of course, and for penny it was for how good he was to her.

The point being is that, they were afraid of SUCCEEDING. Not failing. They believed that because they were happy that, they had nowhere else to go, so, they got bored, and trying to sabotage their wedding/marriage. All out of the fear of being successful

katiesmuff · Answer

I've never had a fear of finding someone else and the only time I was single was the times I wanted it that way. I feel if you look around there is always someone out there who is for you.

Singing_Hollow · Answer

Its not that I fear i won't find someone else, its I fear i won't find someone else like him. When someone just fits perfectly and makes you want to be the best version of yourself then its hard to imagine being apart.

menina · Answer

I've never been in a relationship and I'm ok with never being in one. I mean, I would like to have a boyfriend (possibly a husband) but if it never happens it won't be end of the world for me.

Slim57 · Answer

I've found people before, but it's always been extremely tough and exhausting for me and I hate the process, but I also don't know if I'd want to find anyone else, my first relationship was half the time of the one I'm in now and it took me years to get over

MiddleAgedClimbee · Answer

At this point, if she left me, I would move on and enjoy being single for the remainder of my days.

catarecute · Answer

i am single i can find someone in one day but i dont just want to date anyone and honeslty i havnt find anyone worth my time tbh.

petitedollbabee · Answer

Disagree, but I do fear having to start all over again with someone new. It’s a lot of work.

Selena1987 · Answer

To be honest, being single has its own advantages. I like it and I prefer not to be in a relationship because I always can do what I want when I’m single. Going on a trip, …..

moviedude714 · Answer

Probably because I don't want to have to go through the drama or the burden of having to court a woman all over again or having to pursue all over again

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I'm single and fear I will never find a Lady.

Meropatrick · Answer

No. There is always a better chance somewhere else. When someone leaves they leave behind an empty clean space for someone new and better maybe

Sparkie460 · Answer

I'm in a relationship and I'm not afraid of not finding someone else. I probably wouldn't date again

Likes2drive · Answer

It did cross my mind when I was married but I was so miserable in it but now I can’t find anyone

Twalli · Answer

I will never find someone better than her, but I think I could find someone else.

Benedikt_lol · Answer

It's a lie there are more than 8.1 billion humans in the world 😂

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Don't worry, there are many people better than your partner

Smartgirl_hey · Answer

You will find a better guy if you choose to

yulbsari · Answer

Utter bullshit!!!

Sasha0426 · Answer

I picked the last one.

ÖyleBirGeçer · Answer

I picked the last one.

ranjanchickfight · Answer

Yes i agree.

"I'm scared that if my partner leaves me, I'll never find someone else." Agree or disagree?

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