I am having an opportunity to be in relationship?

[Anonymous]

I am all alone and have always been single. Lately I have been feeling really sand and lonely as if I am missing something...

And there seems to be an opportunity to be in relationship with a dark woman. She is showing some signs and hints of wanting to talk to me more and possibly take things further.

But the thing is she's too dark. She would be my first ever girlfriend. Wouldn't it make me embarrassed in society especially in my friend circle to show her? What if we marry and reproduce dark children?

I am thinking too much negatively. I shouldn't worry about this at all

If I have doubts then it's better to not go ahead with her. I deserve someone better than her

Others

[sheikalana]

That's so childish. You say you never had a girlfriend but when someone shows interest in you you're so judgmental. Just leave her alone if you're ashamed to date someone "too dark" she deserves so much better.

[Asker]

Can you ever be attracted to a dark skinned person?

[sheikalana]

Dude I'm mixed raced myself and married a nigerian man. Do you really want to have this conversation with me? If your preference is light skinned women let her go but please do not hurt her feelings.

[EmmaMary]

Obviously she deserves far better than you.

And with your pathetic, ridiculous frame of mind, you obviously need to remain single.

Wishing you a very "Happy Life".

[Asker]

Why do you call my frame of mind as pathetic and ridiculous 👿?

[Asker]

She is as dark black as the woman in picture above. Getting it?

[EmmaMary]

No I don't get it at all.

You seriously need to start Growing Up and acting Your Age.

The End.

[Asker]

Can you ever be attracted to a dark skinned person?

[EmmaMary]

Absolutely.

[EmmaMary]

Gosh... Thank you so much for the MHO.

[Asker]

The pleasure is all mine 😊

[Rei13]

That’s so stupid that her skin tone is the deterrent for you and the reasoning behind it. Honestly I don’t think you should date her because she can do better. She deserves someone who will cherish her, not someone who is desperate to be in a relationship and will feel embarrassed to show her off. It’s okay to not be attracted to someone, it is just the reasoning behind it

[Asker]

You can't deny the fact that she's so oo dark woman. Yes I have this opportunity to be with her...
But her darkness is a deterrent for sure.
As a woman doesn't dark skin deter you?

[Rei13]

Then don’t date her, she deserves better. And no it doesn’t. If the person is attractive, has matching morals and has a good personality it doesn’t matter.

[Asker]

Personally you wouldn't mind dating a man (or woman) as dark as this in the picture?

[OfMiceandMen]

If you are worried about what your friends and family think then you still need some growing up to do.

If they respect you, they should respect your decision in whomever you choose to date/have a relationship with, especially if the person is a really great fit for you and makes you happy. If they aren't happy for you, then they aren't really your friend.

My other point is, if skin color is something you worry about, without knowing the person inside, then I have a feeling you're going to miss out on a lot of really great relationships in life.

It's ultimately your choice, but don't let other people/society dictate how you choose to live it.

In regards to your children, you will love them no matter what color of skin they have and again if someone else has a problem with it, it's there problem - not yours. I'm sure there are some people that may something about your relationship, but you just have to recognize the ignorance in some people.

[Asker]

Put yourself in my place. Would you be ok and comfortable with a woman who is as dark skinned as she is?

[OfMiceandMen]

Are you kidding, if she was gorgeous (from an initial attraction POV) and she was awesome once I got to know her, I'd have no problem being in a relationship and would not give a crap what anyone else thought. It only matters what she and I think of each other.

[Yannae]

If you're not attracted to her dark skin or freak out over color in general I don't think she's right for you. You may not be a good partner for her if you worry about things like that. If your friends think weird about it and disapprove, they're not good people and you should cut them off

[Asker]

Put yourself in my place. Would you be ok and comfortable with a woman who is as dark skinned as she is?

[Yannae]

I did. I wouldn't care at all.

[Asker]

Oh ok. You have dated a dark skinned woman? How did you feel about it and what about the society?

[Yannae]

I felt indifferent about it. And I don't care about society if we don't share the same view. This is why I live quite a good peaceful life.

[BourbonAndBacon]

What does skin color matter? Either you like her or you don't. Who the hell cares what other people think?

[Asker]

I like her but her skin colour is a deterrent to me
It might embarass me in society

[BourbonAndBacon]

That's ridiculous.

[In_Trance]

Bullshit you do

[Asker]

What? Why