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Polls: Relationships

He broke up because my dog injured his cat, was that fair or not?

My boyfriend broke up and called me the worst owner ever after my dog (female, mastiff mix) injured his cat,. It followed my command on the 2nd time though and I got her away from the cat. That was the first time I've...
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My boyfriend broke up and called me the worst owner ever after my dog (female, mastiff mix) injured his cat,. It followed my command on the 2nd time though and I got her away from the Show More
Yes
No
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Nothing. Because everything is fine between 2 conscenting adults.
It's wrong because 'feelings.'
The invisible conscience fairy that has no evidence of its existence told me this is wrong. And i always listen to voices in my head because im a crazy person.
Nothing is wrong, unless i subjectively say so, since im the only person i have to answer to. If i say slavery and rape is good, THEN IT IS! YEY!
Its objectively wrong. Gee, what does that mean then?
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Does it hurt you if sometimes you want to do a certain thing with your partner but they don’t?

Like lets say you want to go visit somewhere but your partner for whatever reason doesn’t want to and tells you ‘no thanks’. Would you feel hurt? Rejected? What if most of the time they say ‘yes’ to you but just once in...
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Like lets say you want to go visit somewhere but your partner for whatever reason doesn’t want to and tells you ‘no thanks’. Would you feel hurt? Rejected? What if most of the time Show More
Yes it does hurt me anytime they say no to me even if it only happens rarely
No its fine if they say no. Its silly to expect your partner to say yes to me every single time.
It really depends on what they say no to me about. Some things i might get hurt if they say no while others not so much
I wouldn’t say ‘hurt’ but maybe disappointed perhaps
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How do you know when you want to be someone’s girlfriend or boyfriend? Aside from that you like them... what makes you want to be with them?

This Q was inspired by someone who told me they told someone they wanted to be their girlfriend / boyfriend and it made me start to wonder what makes people think such things. Curious. 😊 thanks!!
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This Q was inspired by someone who told me they told someone they wanted to be their girlfriend / boyfriend and it made me start to wonder what makes people think such things. Curious. Show More
I want someone to love / to live me
I’m ready to be accountable to someone and I want to share experiences & grow as a person
Mostly sex but I’m willing to do other stuff to keep everyone happy
I want to explore us as a unit I don't know until I see
Other
I don't know I don’t really think about it I just don’t want to see them with someone else
I ask first, think later
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Is being ghosted an instant relationship ender even if the reason us vaild?

For example You agree to met somewhere and they dont show up due to being ill, unable to deal with confrontations, they ghost you.
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For example You agree to met somewhere and they dont show up due to being ill, unable to deal with confrontations, they ghost you.
Yes
No
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Met in college/university/school
Met elsewhere
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Will she come back?

Hi! I've[35M] been dating a girl[29F] for a short while 2month, and we only came to second date. No kissing tho, didn't want to push her on these buttons coz she told me want to take things slow. But yet she said she...
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Hi! I've[35M] been dating a girl[29F] for a short while 2month, and we only came to second date. No kissing tho, didn't want to push her on these buttons coz she told me want to take Show More
100% chance he will reconnect
50% chance he will reconnect
0% chance he will reconnect
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If you partner keeps insisting you change something about your appearance and you don't want to is that controlling behavior?

Like if the guy asked his girlfriend to get longer hair or if she wanted him to shave his chest hair. And after they say no they keep asking still. Is asking and insisting these things controlling behavior?
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Like if the guy asked his girlfriend to get longer hair or if she wanted him to shave his chest hair. And after they say no they keep asking still. Is asking and insisting these things Show More
Yes that is controlling. they should respect their partners decision
No that isn't controlling exaclty, but it is a red flag. they should accept no for an answer
No their partner should instead go with along with whatever they want because thats what you do in a relationship. you should want to make our partner happy
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I don't like it
I love it
Other/write in comments
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Continue
Leave
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Yes
No
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Stay with him
Leave
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Dinner date
Coffee date
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Men
Women
50/50 (Such a weeny answer)
Results
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Yes, I think people should share every single information about themselves with their SO
NO
It depends
Some things gotta stay private
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Yes, It would be nice
No, I dont like submissive people
I dont care whether or not he/she is submissive
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Do you ever go to relatives or friends for advice if you're in a relationship?

Or do you you think you can solve your issues just with your partner?
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Or do you you think you can solve your issues just with your partner? Show More
Yes sometimes i will go to them if i need advice for my relationship
No i don't go to them for relationship advice. instead i ask strangers for a fresh perspective.
No i don't go to anyone for advice, i think i can solve our issues by ourselves.
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4-10
11-15
16-20
21+
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