Polls: Relationships

Pros:
- Very thoughtful towards my family and spends time with them, pays for them when going out
- Loves me, always checks up on me and takes care of me.
-We also have fun joking around and talking to each other
- Sometimes surprise me with snacks so I don't stress out too much in school
-Very good with kids and always trying to make me happy when I communicate my needs and
concerns

Cons:
-Doesn't have similar interests together (I like sightseeing, exercising, and going out, he likes staying home and spend time with fam)
-Doesn't have a stable career or any ambition
(Makes minimum wage and tells me he will find a better job but nothing changed after a few years,
I'm still in school trying to become a nurse)
-Incompatible sex drives (I get sex deprived bc we only have sex when he wants it and we don't do it as much)
- Doesn't prioritize me (last minute cancelled on my bday bc he doesn't want to do what I want to do and is tired that day)

Overall it's not a bad relationship. He's a very sweet guy but sometimes I don't feel like we're compatible and lately, I feel like im slowly falling out of love. Especially since he's not even trying to improve himself with a better career. But then at the same time I still have so much love for him and don't want to regret leaving him. We've been together for a couple years so I don't know. Is this relationship worth staying in or should I find someone more compatible?

started seeing a guy became close friends with benefits for two months. his ex girlfriend (one he thought to marry) came back. told him to go for it, he did, we remained friends but then I left as a friend to make sure they wouldn't break up with me in picture. they broke up 6 month later he came back. we messed around eventually he asks me to date him to be his girlfriend I said no as he's rebounding and I don't wanna be that girl. we continue seeing eachother, we get close again. I ask for 6 month if he was sleeping with anyone else he said no. I had a feeling and addressed it he later confirmed he slept with 4 other women. we weren't labeled boyfriend and girlfriend however thought it was exclusive as I was with him. I said he ruined my chance to have a hot girl summer before we settled into a relationship. we are official noe but I wanted to break up because of having doubts if he maybe could get away with again cheated. we came up with agreement that this summer I can have hot girl summer and sleep with 4 people to make him pay for it and help me get over it. I have feelings for him and only want him but have this feeling he may cheat in our relationship. he said no because he wants to marry me someday to do this and we will be even and move forward from it. I said ok. however I'm not sure actually what to do?

When did you meet your first love? a first relationship or first big crush does NOT automatically equivalate first love. Some people can go through many crushes and relationships before truly falling in love for the first time.

My boyfriend and I (who are in a long distance relationship - please don’t judge - ) have this mutual online male friend that will not let me use any kind of affection towards my boyfriend in his discord server. I used to have feelings for our mutual male friend, but realized it would never work out and got over him. I then began dating my boyfriend and our male friend tried to make my boyfriend look like the bad guy and made me look like the innocent one in every little conflict that he’d create in his mind as a problem even though there was none. It seemed like he tried to break us up, even going as far as asking me out on April Fool’s Day.

Now he won’t let me use “affections in the chat” as he likes to say. I get why he says it to this one female friend of ours because she’s kinda obsessed with him, but I can’t call my own boyfriend babe. I have to use his real name. He won’t even allow me to go on discord voice chat when my boyfriend goes into discord voice call. I am starting to get very irritated by this and I don’t know what to do.

*Note: he has a girlfriend by the way*

so according to my experience, guys only texted me first when they had a crush on me, but when they didn't and i kind of liked them i would be the one texting first-

(Assume this other person is still very actively in your partners life to this day)

I feel like if he was cheating, he would hide her from me. I usually don't care but lately I find myself being a little self conscious about it. Like it's cool to have platonic friends, but is this going too far?

It is a very well known fact that people in love do dumb decisions, act silly out of love.

I'd say it is a man who usually gets crazier when in love.