I think you are either talking about one woman in particular; a tiny fraction of women; or you're just plain wrong.
I am not saying that no women look at it this way. There's certainly some who do. But I can tell you for a fact, that this is not how women generally view things.
I talk to pretty much only women on here, and I talk to them about relationships. From "does he like me" to a woman in her mid 50's having trouble in her marriage. I talk to lots of different women. Pretty ones, not-as-pretty ones, confident ones, and super-insecure ones, virgins in their 30s and high school girls (on here).
I think that, for a guy, I've got an excellent sampling of how women see relationships. I have 6 ongoing women I'm chatting with in my DMs right now (about their situations).
This is just not how women see themselves in a relationships. It's really really not. Women want a partner. They go for a guy who they feel lucky to be with. If you had any idea how much women feel they DO need to change something about themselves. I'm literally talking to a jet-setting Model who makes excellent income about this exact thing right now.
This is a girl who is confident that she's an attractive girl with a great personality (and she does have a great personality). Nevertheless, there's certain doubts about being good enough.
I have never seen a girl in a relationship where she felt herself the prize compared to the guy (except for relationships that were clearly messed-up... and where the guy was just a piece of shit. And those relationships should have ended... and almost certainly will eventually).
This is really not what I've ever seen women doing (generally speaking)
They overvalue themselves because in the sexual marketplace... they are in higher demand. If they fail to realize that all that extra attention is for sex and just sex... then they fall into this trap of feeling validation from that attention. That's why so many women want to play and not get serious about relationships until they hit the wall and then start wondering where all the good men have gone and why they're now alone... oh, now they want something serious and with no bullshit... where was that when she was 25?
The demand is real though... a 10/10 man can make a Tinder and a 5/10 woman can make one at the same time. That man might get 2... maybe 3 matches with some effort put into it. The woman though will get bombarded with so many matches and messages that she is most likely going to end up not even bother responding to any of them unless it is some superman Chad Thundercock or Tyrone Bigone. Just facts. That's why I suggest to any guy that doesn't at least look as sexy as me or a fitness model level of looks... stick to face to face interactions to find love. I digress.
Basically, a dude can walk into a bar to get laid and it's going to take some work no matter what. A chick could do the same and her work is going to be getting the fat smelly guys to fuck off long enough that she can talk to the one she actually wants.
Here is another factor to consider as well... let's say she has a job, money, and all that jazz. How many "generous" will just hand it over like a man will? That's why men don't usually look at a woman and think..."OMG, she has an education and a good career, this might be good for me."
Yet, because you provided absolutely no reasons why you believe this is true, your statements are not likely to be persuasive except to those that already agree with you. Regardless, the claim that women believe that they're the "prize" in a relationship simply because they're "more beautiful" than the man in the relationship and don't need to change anything about themselves is a broad generalization, not a fact that applies to all women. Plenty of women are merely happy to be in a relationship with the man they love as well. Nevertheless, I am curious to understand the basis of your reasoning, which would allow me to provide a better answer and expound upon my opinion. What are you basing your reasoning on?
What do you expect when women constantly get the message from men they they don’t care about women’s education, career, ambitions, or anything other than their looks?
Literally this. I don't even have to add my own opinion here. :)
Those things matter, but they require a wide range of skills, knowledge, and abilities that again, men never talk about and even act like they don’t care about. Sometimes I think a lot of guys have no clue what it takes to be a good wife, mother, and homemaker, they just want someone who’ll have sex with them and take the cooking, cleaning, and child care off his shoulders and that’s a problem because it’s that’s not what those roles are supposed to be doing at all.
Do they? Im assuming every one can cook and clean.
Men probably dont talk about those because i guess its a no-brainer.
Take the child care off their shoulders?
I don't know. I see lots of guys going on walks with strollers.
And its kinda insulting that you (like many other women) seem to think men want little to do with their kids
Everyone can cook and clean, but what about the soft skills involved with being a great wife and mom? What about the costs and sacrifices one must make to step into that role? Sure, most people can cook and clean and take care of kids but why are working wives and moms still doing the majority of it? The statistics are pretty clear on that.
@MzAsh You're also forgetting that most of these women in these situations already knew how their guy was before they married him. So do you know why they put up with these men for so long? Because when they met and they started dating, and then maybe started living together before marriage and kids, these women think they can or will change these men, or hope he does, and they never do. All these guys do is see that she's tolerating him, and aren't gonna change it. So he gets his way and she's unhappy.
Women do this all the time. They pick men for the shallow reasons while deep down they can see what kind of man he really is, but they ignore it because of the cutesy romance feels or because they think this guy is going to change for her.
Thats a myth, most guys care about common interests, shared hobbies, career choice, personality, looks, and goals.
The guys who only care about the woman's looks, expect the woman they date to only care about the his looks as well.
about his*
ManonFire, yeah you have a point on that one. That’s why I help women spot red flags early on. Although, I do think there’s a difference between changing a man and requesting an attitude or behavior adjustment. My man didn’t do a whole lot of cooking and cleaning when we first started dating, but he’s grown up and realized (as have I) that various adult tasks just need to be done regardless of how much you don’t like doing it. I think a lot of women are simply too soft and don’t have the backbone to tell him it’s his turn to make dinner and deep clean the house.
BRAVO 👏👏👏
Makes zero sense @MzAsh Why would a girl feel like a prize when she lacks all those things? So you're basically saying girls who feel like they have everything or just looks believe they are the prize?
Also, you're just blaming men. 1 man cannot control mass programming that started many years before his birth. You're thinking like a victim. Everyone does this.
I mean just look at the men in your comments. You know you're wrong and ever girl who agrees with you is also playing the victim because of conditioning. You're helping the very system you hate. It's a circle that never ends. I bet all these girls care about their looks too much also. Why? Because they believe what you said. I goes beyond caring for your body for many girls.
It’s really not men’s fault. Our whole society worships female beauty. Look around you. It sells everything. Wars are started, empires are overthrown, people die for female beauty. That’s why beautiful women act like they’re the prize. Because they are treated like the prize everywhere they go.
From what i understand women have a natura instinct for motherhood.
As for wife skills. Feed your husband keep the house in order have sex.
Costs and sacrifices: im 30 and my back is not good. If and when i become a husband/father, most of my hobbies will have to be put aside in order to perform my husband/father duties. And when i finally retire, i doubt ill have much strength left to enjoy the rest of my life with my wife.
Why do wives and moms fo the majority of it... Because they always have.
Maybe in your country its different, but my mom worked, both my grand mothers did too and great grand mothers.
They were wives, moms and did work on the farm. But somehow modern women can't?
Not only are tgey not incentivized, theyre activelly discouraged from those roles.
Because for some reason, feminists have compared being a housewife to slavery...
This is an insane claim to make.
Furthermore, women are now told to be a boss babe whos 1st,2nd and 3rd priority should be a high flying career.
Its the most anti woman thing I've ever heard.
Feminism is mot a monolithic entity. It encompasses a diverse range of viewpoints and ideologies. Women are free to choose the paths they deem most fulfilling, whether that be pursuing a career, staying at home to raise a family, or a combination of both.
It is unfortunate that some interpretations of feminism may seem to devalue the role of a homemaker. However, the broader feminist movement has made significant strides in dismantling societal norms that have historically limited women's opportunities and choices. The encouragement for women to pursue careers is aimed at empowering them and ensuring they have equal access to opportunities. Being a housewife isn’t slavery, but it’s also not appealing to a lot of women for various reasons.
Women are free to choose... ill put a pin in that since it deviates from the topic ( we kinda already did but anyways).
No. All interpretations of feminism devalue that roles.
It made significat strides in societal norms that have historically limited women...
Ok lets go. Have you ever cut/chopped a tree with an axe or a saw? Or pounded hot metal with a hammer? Or fought a large hand to hand battle for hours?
Or hunted animals with a bow? And do you understand how dangerous these tasks were and still are even with current tech?
Because I've noticed that any time feminists bring up history, they for some reason never mention that everything was done by hand and required a level of physical ability that women dont have.
Does it not make sense to have women as home makers given that they are better suited for that role?
And before you mention voting or owning property.
Men were allowed to vote because they had military duties and even that is a fairly new developement.
Men still have said duty. In america they have to sign up for selective service, in my country, men are automatically registered.
But not women. Why?
Women now have equal access to opportunities. There is no legal barrier for women to do anything. On the contrary. Women have affirmative action programs and gender quotas.
The level of feminist hypocricy is stunning.
Back to topic. Women aren't the prize. Overblown egos, a bitchy attitude and a body count is not a prize
It’s important to acknowledge physical differences between men and women that may have shaped traditional gender roles in the past. However, it's also important to recognize that society has evolved, and so have the expectations and opportunities for both men and women.
It’s true that historically, men have taken on more physically demanding tasks, and women have demonstrated their physical capabilities in various fields, including sports, construction, and even the military. Physical strength is not the sole determinant of a person's worth or their ability to contribute meaningfully to society.
Regarding voting and property ownership, these rights were fought for and won by the feminist movement to create a more just and equal society. Military service is a complex issue that varies across different countries and cultures, and it is not the sole basis for determining who should be allowed to vote or own property.
Feminism aims to challenge and dismantle the traditional gender roles that may have limited both men and women in the past. It seeks to create a more inclusive society where individuals can choose their paths and have equal access to opportunities, regardless of their gender. Feminist ideals do not inherently devalue traditional roles but rather question the rigid expectations associated with them.
As for the notion of women being a "prize," I’m not saying it’s right or that it’s fair. I personally believe individuals should be valued for their unique qualities and character, regardless of their gender. Generalizing the behavior and attitudes of women as "overblown egos" and "bitchy" only further perpetuates hateful attitudes and negative stereotypes.
You can go against biology, just don't expect a good results. Just because you can do something doesn't make it a good idea. Nothing feminism want benefits women, it benefits companies who got more competition and lower salaries, and of course the top % of men who can sleep around like never before.
While there are some efforts of extreme feminism that deserves criticism, it has brought many benefits to women and society as a whole, such as greater access to education, employment opportunities, and political representation. These advancements have improved the lives of countless women and have contributed to the overall progress and development of society.
As for your argument that feminism benefits only companies and a select group of men, the pursuit of gender equality benefits everyone, including men. When women have equal opportunities and are valued for their contributions, it creates a more dynamic and innovative workforce, leading to increased productivity and economic growth. Additionally, modern feminist efforts aim to challenge unrealistic and harmful expectations placed on men, such as the pressure to always be dominant and unemotional.
Contributed to construction sports and the military.
I've worked in construction. Never seen a woman.
I dont understa what you mean by sport Contribution.
As for the military.
Very few cultures had warrior women for obvious reasons.
Modern armies have lowered starndards so women could be included. This is mad. Tests were also done on mixed gender squads. They perfomed worse than all male units.
The RAF got sued by a few women a few years back because they got unjured during a march. They won the suit.
It was also debated that putting women in combat roles would put men in danger because they would instinctivelly attempt to protect the female soldiers, endangering tgemselces and the mission objective.
We're talking about war, not a camping trip. Its not a complex issue. Feminists wanted equality. They should demand that registration applies to them or relinquish their voting right.
Some cultures allowed women to hold property. Sparta is one example.
Gender roles aren't an artificial creation. Every animal has the (there are exceptions obviuslly)
You can value people outside their gender all you want, mother nature gives zero fucks and made men and women anatomically different. Men build, hunt and fight and women nurture, raise and support. Both can take on roles of the other to some degree, but you'll never have 90% female army and you'll never have90% of male nurses.
Im sure youve seen videos of women being asked to rate themselves or the "what are men good for" type of questions.
Overblown egos, bitchy attitudes and hubris.
You may have not personally worked with women in construction, however that doesn’t mean they don’t exist or that they can’t excel in the field.
Regarding sports, women have made significant contributions to the industry, from breaking world records to advancing women's sports leagues. While some cultures historically did not have warrior women, there have been documented instances of women who served as soldiers, spies, and even leaders in various cultures throughout history.
Gender roles are not fixed and are subject to change over time. While men and women have different physical attributes and tendencies, that does’t mean they are limited to specific roles or professions.
Physical ability is not the only factor that determines job performance. There are many other skills and abilities that are necessary for a job, such as problem-solving, communication, and teamwork, that may be equally or more important than physical strength.
Paying based on results can create a number of unintended consequences, such as incentivizing employees to cut corners or prioritize speed over safety or quality. It can also create a competitive and potentially divisive work environment, where employees are pitted against each other rather than working together towards a common goal.
They can't excel unless they do the paperwork. Shiw me a woman that can stack bricks and carry 40kg window and ill show you a house on the coast of austria.
Dahomey warrior women
Joan of arc and queen boudica.
Mata hari
Soldiers, leaders and spies.
Gender roles kinda are fixed. They existed since, well forever.
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Some women, regardless of looks, feel that way. It's ego and hypergamy.
Because we are, period. You know it very well too.
This is why dating apps are flooded with men. Widowed men look to marry much faster than widowed women do. Men's income and life expectancy increases when they are married because they benefit from the work women do in making it easier for them to be healthy and use their time to make more money.
Reproduction is ultimately in our hands that's why you are so eager to control and subdue us.
Men are becoming more and more miserable as women are beginning to realize that they don't have to settle with a man unless they willing choose to do so, and middle-aged single women are the happiest demographic.
@Deserter men don't decide if I'm special or not ☺️☺️
@DaySpring so not having women bowing down to you=holocaust. Cope and seethe.
Insecurity woman or men will view them selves as a prize, and will need to be put on a Pedestal in order for them to be shown they love. It will never be enough and the moment they are not on the Pedestal the confidence in your attraction or love is out the window.
A healthy woman or man would not look at herself as a prize, but as your partner. They are going to balance your out with their strengths & weaknesses. They want to be respected & loved. This type of live is not Turbulent fickle or easily out the window because they know that they can work through the hard times to be with you.
A woman who knows her worth IS a prize.
If I like her appearance, behavior, personality, values, etc. and she chooses to be with me for the same reasons, she is a treasure beyond value.
Yes, there are guys who want trophy wives. But those guys don't understand value beyond money and status.
There are also guys who simply don't value women for anything but sex and as servants. They think women are inferior to men.
But healthy-minded men DO respect women. And they realize how lucky they are to find a woman who has brains, self respect, pluck, a strong work ethic, is honest, loyal, fun, admires them as much as they admire her, loves sex, and is as concerned about their happiness as they are of hers.
This is true, but it's just the game. All women for the most part believe they are a prize, but obviously most aren't. Truth is, neither are most men. For a man, the key is to one, be a prize yourself by understanding the dynamics between men and women in relationships, and two, knowing how to tell the difference between women that actually are a prize, and women that aren't. It deosnt matter if a woman that isn't a prize acts like she is, as long as you as a man know she isn't, then you can't be deceived.
Part of that is because we teach women that they are or should be, and teach men to regard them as the same. It's not necessarily wrong, but it has become out of control, yes. To make it worse, women believe that their gender is inherently good, more moral, or better just because they're women. So they don't want to believe that there's ever a such thing as women needing improvement, needing to see men as any kind of important prize, or having to be humble and realize that at the end of the day they aren't made of gold.
You also have to take into account that a lot of women don't really want to be seen as much more than a prize. It's just about image. They want to be seen as important just for being a woman who is pretty or provides sex, but still not having a lot of value in brain matter, character, or life skills. Women on TikTok and Instagram show us this all the time.
Why are men constantly enabling that behavior by complimenting us on our looks, sleeping with the first woman who gives him the time of the day and even stating how they don't care about a woman's education, personality, her goals, salary nor other things beyond just being young and giving him kids?
It's those men themselves that ask for so little in return. They have no standard for women other than just looking good and young.
@DaySpring
Well it wouldn't solve the problem at 100% (nothing in life is a total guarantee after all) but you would know who to dump quickly instead of being clouded by just lust, a good meal (by the way cooking isn't ''wow finally a woman that cooks'' but it's just a basic skill for anyone to save money and eat healthy vs knowing nothing and relying on delivery too much) and someone looking cute.
I think you are full of it. To a man, the female IS a prize. Why do you think every animal/human male seeks a female and considers it finding a prize when they do? Kingdoms have been lost for the love of a woman and secrets have been told for the same. If you don't think so then you had better stick to men. But I reckon your results will be no different.
😅 oh yeah, from King Atilla and Honoria, Romeo and Juliet, Ceaser and Cleopatra, Genghis Khan and his Heram, Ottoman Emperors and the Royal Harem (Muslims can't more more than 4 wives at the same time and these people got a Fatwah I think that they can keep hundreds of concubines 🤣) and the Mughal Emperor's in India used to marry Iranian traveling troupe's women after getting them divorced even and giving the entire family royal titles😒.
So, pretty you are spot on 👌
Because girls like to be persued, bro.
But in good humor.
Pursuing is different from being chased.
Let's think about the phonetics and context of "chase"
To chase something is to sometimes instinctually pursue with agenda. If I chase my dog, it could be due to him running away or misbehaving. He gets fearful of me and it will negatively impact the relationship of my dog and I. My dog will forever be scared of me, thanks for that lol.
To pursue something is to follow, study and learn the workings of something. Pursuit of happiness, right - to be happy we want to find out how we can do that in a healthy way. When you pursue something, you have the big picture in mind, but you want it so bad, you're careful not to lose it. Pursuit is important.
When you pursue a woman, you're actually interested in WHO she is not what she is.
I'd say both parties are the prize in a relationship. The right relationship
I'm not a prize.
I'm a woman, a good woman who doesn't cheat, is clean, has a life, a home, a job.
She's stable, not here there and every where.
I'm family orientated.
I'm just waiting to meet someone like me who's ready to settle down and start their committed life.
Is he a prize now.
Hopefully just my life partner.
@CubsterShura Now this is woman who knows her worth. She knows she isn't some trophy that just sits on a self to be looked at. She knows she's better than that and isn't self-center and arrogant lacking value. She is looking for her equal not for someone to put her on a self.
@DaySpring I don't think anyone who has to describe "I don't cheat, am clean, have a life, a home and a job, is family oriented" clearly doesn't know her worth because that's everyone 😭😭 you think I don't shower, don't have a family that I love, don't have a life etc?
ok the grammar is all over the place but that's beside the point lol "look she keeps herself clean and loves her family you should be like her" what if I tell you I already am 😂😂😂💀
Why has this response turned you against me? @CubsterShura. The point I was making is that we are all equal. And equality means we know what we bring to the table and if we get a partner hopefully they compliment those with their strength.
People that do idolise have really unclear and rather unnatural requests.
Human beings make life far too complicated.
When relationships, love, and life are rather simplistic, organic, natural with some chemical and nurture. You may be a clean one but there are others who aren't and others that like that.
@lilyanony1 not as much against you as against the actual narrative itself that somehow basic human characteristics are something to offload.
We might be having a major communication break down. @CubsterShura but it's cool. Look after yourself.
I tend to agree with @MzAsh , women have always been revered as trophies by guys, where do you think the term "trophy-wife" comes from?
It's like a badge of honor with most men.
So if they become the prize in the relationship, they are a biproduct of an ask and yea shall receive type scenario.
Women always think their pussy is the single most exquisite, sacred, perfect, beautiful pussy that you can ever, ever have. You should be thankful to even get a look at that pussy! It’s one in 10 billion!
While men know, “I’m just one more swinging dick out here. I’m disposable. Replaceable. And just about any other swinging dick will get a crack at that pussy. It’s a numbers game. Plain and simple. Men want women more than women want men. They automatically regard themselves as something valuable. It’s their default setting. While men, well, we have to PROVE ourselves. Put in the work. Be charming. Be romantic. Funny. Vulnerable. Successful. Smart. (Because that’s really what they mean anyways) and yes, you’ve got to go to the gym and do your crunches. And wear nice shoes.
A sea of dicks, all trying to get that one single vagina. Because we all know there aren’t billions of other vaginas all around the world right now, just hoping to be filled.
Hmm I actually don't know. Not all women do this, but a lot do. I was always taught to be humble. That there is always going to be someone who is better than you in something so show humility and be a partner not a trophy. Everyone needs a reality check tbh. You may be better than most, but there is always someone out there that can out do you. Man or woman. Be humble and respectful. Be a partner, be a friend, be everything your partner needs. That's what will set you apart from everyone else.
I would like to be with someone, where we both feel like a prize to one another.
You shouldn't have to change who you are as a person and change your core or your values.
And then it's also a question of whether you're compatible with each other.
Because guys generally have to make the move to win them over, so they are in that sense.
Plus, some have over inflated egos with guys acting as if they're perfect because they look good with fake crap on their face, like who wouldn't, on top of all these marketing campaigns and body positivity movements telling them they're perfect no matter what.
Let's talk pragmatically... in PURELY PLATONIC friendships there's 'equality'.
If there is a potential for pregnancy under ANY circumstances, ask yourself "WHO harbors the eggs, ... whom possesses the womb and is inconvenienced for AT LEAST nine months? Whom does society task with single parenthood in most circumstances?" Non-platonic dating is an 'audition' NOT a hook-up.
Parenting, media. Don’t get me wrong women should be cherished and treated like women, however there is definitely a lack of humbleness in some women, and that is unattractive.
I don’t mind holding the door for you or being a gentleman, but when you feel it’s owed to you or your better then me, then I stop because I do it out of kindness not because your better then me.
I think that every woman should consider herself a prize to be won. Not all women are the same. There can be brains and beauty and that combination is amazing to find. However an woman has her own personality and therefore should be considered as a prize
Not all women believe this but majority of them do because throughout their lives because of female empowerment bullshit they are told that they are the more entitled gender. That they deserve more than men. Yet claim to want equality with men. They’re hypocrites
Because we are. We carry on your lineage. We comfort you when you come home from delaing with cutthroat men all day. We have boobs.
@LickSmack see we make you guys giggle too!
I just snorted at the end 😆 None of that is inaccurate
@Sirenboobzilla a snort! That is a high compliment 😊
Lol cause I'm just picturing this being serious with a level of drama, then at the very end just scream "WE HAVE BOOBS!"
@Sirenboobzilla Just stating the facts 🤷🏾♀️
Don't get me wrong, I'm in full agreement with everything you said. Just the way my dork brain read it made me laugh hard
@Sirenboobzilla no worries. I totally got it! good vibes.
If you just graduate from high school and are inundated with offers from the opposite sex, you'll believe you are valuable. Now imagine that same feeling of validation reoccurring over the years, especially at uni. It inflates egos and an inflated ego is what leads to girls believing they are the prize
They consider the prize - sexually also having them physically as a statue.
This behavior happens when a women is rejected.. they start beleive they are the prize so men lose …
lol
Can you be a prize at 50.. not really you just wrinkly then.
Consider yourself as a spiritual gift to someone be kind soul and happy. That’s all.
they consider themselves that because for quite a while now we men were SIMPY enough to consider them that. but believe me, things are changing.
PS: Disney movies, porn, video games about rescuing the hot girl, romantic and misogynist music hasn't been helping us out
Because they have a hole on their body for us to play in and we can’t play in it unless they allow us
and also someone brainwashed women into thinking that men only care about sex
a lot of women don’t know much about men their knowledge ends and begins with us liking sex that’s it
Its not women only, but some people really, since there are guys like that too. You must remember, all superiority complexes are really a manifestation of an inferiority complex. Such people make poor bed-mates.
Because they are. But remember... women get to choose who they sleep with, but men get to choose who they marry 😉
(I'm sure both men and women would love for it to be the opposite lol)
Just because you read some nonsense online doesn't mean you should repeat it on here. You need some life experience before you can claim to know anything about women.
I think the behaviour of men are fuelling that mentality.
Every “prize” needs a “Sir”… “Sirprize”!
Be A Sir, we’re guys that’s all you gotta worry about.
The more “Sir” you can self proclaim to be the better the “prize (s)”.
Cuz most women know it’s easier for her to get another man if she doesn’t get her way , That’s why a guy has to make her feel he will be ok without her for her to want him
Because they ARE the prize for him. If you don't understand that then you're in trouble finding someone to spend your life with.
That doesn't mean she won't need to make changes. It means she has value as she is.
They are the prize. The problem is you don't get to find out how good the prize is until it's too late.
A good woman is your own treasure. Keep her and treasure her.
Frankly , I don't think your statement is correct , I don't know anyone that thinks like that.
Because ultimately women decide in today's society who does and does not get sex. If you are a man that gets a woman then you were chosen.
This coming from a man that is an intelligent and not for lack of trying.
That's vain arrogance to consider oneself as a prize or trophy.
You win if you get someone to date you. She also wins because she got you to date her. So essentially she is the prize for you winning. Yet since she also win, you are the prize for her winning.
Not all women consider themselves in this way.
Maybe because she's got everything a man wants. But, if she can't get a man, there's ALL KINDS of things she can use to take his place!!
Not always. I know when a guy is out of my league and im blessed that its me he wants
By women, do you mean bimbos? Because not to shame anyone but only himbos and bimbos are into that kind of self concept.
Not as much in relationships but I always wondered why sex is always considered as a gain or a privilege for the man.
Speaking as a woman, I think it’s due to the Queen/Goddess mentality pushed on by feminism.
I think it is men's fault. Feminism is just cherry on top. For one man who doesn't give too many needless compliments there are 20 more trying to give thousands of complements to girls. Call it simping but this ends up conditioning that it is natural to be treated like a Princess or Queen or Demigoddess etc etc 😒.
So, not everything needs a label.
bare bones rough truth (for most since there will always be at least one "but i dont" ) because of societally ovee inflatted egos
They CAN consider themselves the prize because enough men still go after them.
In a way you can put blame on men as well for this phenomenon.
no the prize would be our happiness and the things we accomplish together
To much stinking Disney movies of princesses 😐
Because they've been bombarded with compliments since they were kids, it makes them build a monumental ego and consider themselves the prize.
I think men encourage women to think that way. How many men can make a living selling OnlyFans accounts to women?
Because the gynocentric system in which they live has elevated their vagina to the most astronomical heights.
Because on average far more men compete for the average woman than women who compete for the average man.
question is: why don't men consider themself the prize?
Sounds like you're angry because no one is attracted to you. Can't blame the world for your problems
Those who do are just entitled. If I see a woman as a prize, they never considered so themselves.
NO ONE, male or female is on a pedestal. If a girl said that to me, then I'd say to her don't let the door hit you on the way out! Have a Happy Life!
Why do athletes consider themselves the best when they aren't?
Because we have the vagina which does amazing things, one of them being giving birth.
Because there's so many men desperate to have a woman in their life.
Well its better than being hit on top of the head a dragged by the hair back to the cave
Because they have titties and a pussy, and simps have convinced them they are the prize.
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