Should both partner contribute on dates or should the man cover everything g till they get married?
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Once you get to the point where you are talking about marriage, both parties should contribute. It is a good practice to have and will help in the future.11
If you intend to get married you need to be fully committed0
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Both should contribute, and it make more sense to pay for wife than for unknown woman.10
Women don’t add anything to a relationship except vagina, therefore they should be paying at least half.4
she pays for everything!0
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It depends whether she wants the relationship to last long enough to get married. I mean I wouldn't expect a woman to pay for anything necessarily. But I'd be very cognizant after a long enough time that she wasn't or that she wasn't even offering. And that would tell me a bit about her. I'll tell you ofall the women I've dated. About half at least have offered to pay thier share. Of course I never took them up on thier offer. But it's nice to know they're at least willing.
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So if a woman offers to contribute it shows she’s serious and not using the guy and that she’s not a free-loader basically?
If a woman sits there expecting the guy to pay then she’s an opportunist it seems
Kind of yeah. Like I say I appreciated the offer. I think most guys understand the time honored tradition that guys pay. But this ain't the 1950's anymore. Women work and make money to. And if there's a future in the relationship she probably going to do some of the lifting financially speaking. It just kind of shows her commitment to the relationship.
Ya that makes a very valid point!
If someone is willing to financially contribute like for a shared gift for a relative for example it shows the person is serious about the relationship