Should men pay for everything in the relationship?

[missindiana93]

Since some woman are stingy and like to only spend money on themselves. When i worked i paid my husband bills cause I lived with him. And paid my own. Cause I dont need my hair done every week or my nails or get pedicures and manicures. Or buy a new micheal kors purse. I value buying groceries so we can eat and pay bills.

[HawkPerception]

That was the dynamic in the days where women were either not allowed to work or if they did, it was for very little.

Nowadays, women have all the same rights as men and get equal pay. In many scenarios women actually have many more advantages in finding work due to all the inclusivity nonsense going on.

So if they have equal pay and rights, why should men still have to pay for everything? Why should they be expected to provide? That'd nonsensical.

I personally don't have any issue providing and paying for everything if the girl wants a traditional relationship where she is a stay at home wife, as long as I make enough for the both of us. But that dynamic is hard to come across these days because most households require 2 incomes. That's the way society has developed since feminism. We created more jobs for women to come into the workforce, but due to that, society needs both men and women to work now. If all of the women stopped working today, a lot of places would shut down.

[Chazmatazz269]

That is for that man and his significant other to decide between them. I would gladly pay for everything for a good woman to dedicate herself to taking care of me in return. Most of my relationships, we both worked and shared expenses, chores, errands and other responsibilities.

[DishLady]

In the RELATIONSHIP? No.

On a romantic date when you've taken an hour to squeeze into that dress so your boobs are propped up just so? Yeah.

[alli-112]

Nah. I vote for 50-50 or at least some sort of split in money, labor, time, etc that leaves both partners feeling supported and valued.

[Apple1996]

If they are a traditional man then yes. I personally only like traditional provider men and wouldn't settle for anything else

[Nikki1989]

My husband pays the rent, I pay for everything else, but the topic of money rarely comes up in conversation. Not essential.

[PeachyPie93]

Yes.. and my money is for both of us to have fun with..

[WonderingManII]

It depends on what kind of relationship. In a marriage I think should be "our money", not her verses him.

[LiamJHayden]

If I she were a stay-at-home mom raising the children, then yes. If we both work and she makes close to what I do, or more, then no.

[bowenw]

I find it best if the recourses are pooled.

[Efrahim]

Yes, the man should pay