Should a relationship be 50/50, or do you believe guys have to pay for everything?

[Mochagirl93]

What is your take on it?

[NordicInScandinavia]

A relationship is more than finances and I think it should be whatever makes sense at the time and for the couple.

We have shared finances, right now his income his higher than mine, so think it's 42/58 at the moment. I have seniority over him tho, and been at my work longer so I'll be getting a bump in pay grade sooner than he and getting more hours so that will change again.

[Mochagirl93]

I have never been in a relationship, so I have never reached that level in my life. But that is understandable.

[Abbycado]

I went 50/50 when I started dating. I don’t want any guy to think I owe them something because they paid. I am not saying all guys will think that way, but I don’t give the chance to.

[Abbycado]

As for relationship we end up 50/50 in the end.

[Mochagirl93]

I believe in 50/50. But most females i talk to always said guy should pay for everything.

[Abbycado]

I don’t like that. I am in your camp.

[Mochagirl93]

Yes i feel like when females said they want a guy to pay for everything sound like they want be to housewife.

[Abbycado]

Ty for mho!

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach navigating the waves of love, I aim to share that a partnership should have balance, but not necessarily a strict 50/50 split. Harmony comes from each partner contributing differently, whether emotionally, financially, or through lovebombing acts. It's about supporting each other’s strengths without keeping score. It's a team effort that doesn’t always rely on financial boundaries. 😄💑

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

In terms of finances, everything should be relative to the shared incomes. If one person makes $100k a year and the other makes $35k, they should not split bills evenly but rather the one making more money should cover 65% of the bills and the other pays 35%. That’s equitable and fair.

[Mochagirl93]

That's definitely understandable.

[Agape93]

Always 50/50. It's an equal partnership.

[Mochagirl93]

I totally agree with you.

[Ms_Facesitter]

50 50 of course

[Mochagirl93]

Same

[oldpigg]

The woman must pay for everything.

[Mochagirl93]

Why not 50/50

[StevenMcGarrett]

I believe that the guy should pay for everything.

[Mochagirl93]

Why is that?

[StevenMcGarrett]

Because the guy should be the man and provide and protect the woman.

[Mochagirl93]

That understandable

[StevenMcGarrett]

Unless a girl has money but I've never met one.

[Mochagirl93]

Most girls have money and then there are girls want to be housewife.

[StevenMcGarrett]

Oh, I never met one but it's been a long time since I've been single.