Polls: Relationships

The trolley problem is a very difficult and sometimes daunting thing to think about but I'm curious to see what people think when it's looked at on the basis of starting a relationship based on being friends with someone for a really long time (5 years or more) or going for someone based solely on material things (looks, money, job, status etc.) especially with this thing known as the "friend-zone", does this change or impact the decision someone makes if the trolley problem is considered.

So if you had control of changing the direction of the track, who would you choose to save, your friend who you have known for years and know everything about or the attractive person who you have absolutely no idea about but want to date because you find them attractive. The person you choose to save is the person you will start a relationship with (in turn proving who you actually care the most about). There is no in-between choice, just one decision.

P. S. This is a legit question. I know it's something people might not want to think about but I want to gauge what peoples choices will be based on putting yourself in a difficult decision such as the trolley problem. Make your responses in the poll below!

This is not changeable. They are who they are.

Should you put up with it?

www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/emotional-abuse

Man Starts earning a decent wage
“I can support my family now“

Woman starts earning a decent wage “I don’t need a man”

Over the years I’ve seen plenty of guys (myself included) gripe about women (especially western women). To a certain extent lots of our grievances are justified considering what feminism has done to western culture.

I have and always agreed with the premise of giving opportunities to women in traditionally male dominated spheres. But as feminism evolved (or should I say devolved) it now more often enables women to be their worst vs. be their best. Usually to the expense of men too but ultimately to the unhappiness and misery of women themselves

With all the said I fully believe there is a deeply engrained evolutionary reason why women tend to be much more selfish in dating.

There was a long time in history women had to use their sexuality to their advantage for both self-preservation and protection of their children. They had fewer opportunities then men and also aren’t as physically strong hence they had to make to with what they had to survive (e. g. manipulation vía sexual attraction). This also a reason why they cared much more about a man’s wealth and prominence. It would ensure her well being and increased survival.

Nowadays in western culture most if not all that bs female manipulation is no longer necessary. Women are not only given ample opportunity to make money but encouraged and supportive via college admissions and scholarship processes. Corporations often want to hire women over men to look “diverse”. The “wage gap” is a proven myth.

Despite the equal opportunities there a DNA instincts that still influence behavior to be more picky with men and to use their sexuality for their own one way benefits.

But we got to deal with this the same way you deal with a sociopath (not saying all women are sociopaths). A sociopath at default is incapable of feeling remorse, guilt, etc. Yelling at them won’t change anything. Instead you have to interact with them carefully. Same with how to deal with women. Love them but be very careful to trust them.

A while ago, i found this quote online. And apperantly there are some people who live in a relationship, which prevents them from enjoying things while their s. o. is around and they have to wait to enjoy certain hobbies.

This was the initial twitter quote that started it off

You can’t call yourself an alpha male and have an Asian wife

— *⋆ 🎀 евелина 🎀 ⋆* (@soviethoneytrap) December 17, 2022

For those who can't see. The user said this "You can’t call yourself an alpha male and have an Asian wife". And this is coming from a white female.

Some of the highlighted replies

"All Asian women are mid and generally the white men who go after them are mediocre themselves."

"Delusional. Asians are bigger sl*ts and goldoggers than white women they literally fuck everything that's white and has money."

"AFAIK people can date whoever they want. Don’t act like your women don’t throw themselves at White men like it’s the end of the world though. Being together with an Asian as a White male is incredibly easy"

"White guys bragging about how they’re super mediocre & no one even looks at their direction in their countries but in Asia the women incessantly approach them because they’re white etc.. it’s a documented phenomenon"

"Another point: the low-quality of some (many?) of our women, has driven white men to date Latinas and Asian girls, who will, most of the time, treat them better than the white girls who they’ve dated prior. Not saying it’s good, not saying it’s bad; it’s just how it is."

"True story! White men with Asian women = last resort because you weren’t man enough to find a woman on your own level! It is fine if you want to resort to that measure, I don’t mind, but you will always be a soy boy beta male!"

Same sentiment can be seen on white dominated websites such as bodybuilding. com/misc where many users have said in the past that other white guys usually look down upon white males who date Asians.

I am 28 and never had a girlfriend. I would love a teen girlfriend, as long as it is legal. I want me and a girl to be each other's first real relationship. I seek a woman without a romantic past. Can I make it happen?

You’d have to have patience and every now and then, they’d blow up your phone freaking out about you being busy. They will make those rookie mistakes but you can guide them and help them become better at the game of relationships.