Would you be willing to date someone with little to zero relationship experience?

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

You’d have to have patience and every now and then, they’d blow up your phone freaking out about you being busy. They will make those rookie mistakes but you can guide them and help them become better at the game of relationships.

Yes 😊

Nope 😡

[LazerBean]

Not having relationship experience doesn't guarantee you will do those things, plenty of people are socially intelligent enough to not be annoying. in my opinion no relationship experience is way better than the emotional baggage from years of failed relationships.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

You’re not guilty of making silly mistakes during your young years

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Or your first relationship just saw you are 23

[LazerBean]

Not that I recall. But then again I didn't start dating till I was an adult, after I found a pretty much perfect match.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

I accidentally did but she was doing the same to me. Blowing up my phone and stuff

[LazerBean]

I don't know, we have always given eachother just as much attention as was wanted.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

That’s why we broke up. We’d be texting nonstop 24-7 since morning. I think we exhausted each other

[LazerBean]

I think thats probably just a general maturity and incompatibility issue though. Now that we've been married we spend more time than ever with eachother. If you get tired of the person you're with then it's not going to work out long term anyway

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

But we were good with each other. Got a long. Could talk fine. We just were toxic for each other. I got to work on stuff too anyway though. I made some mistakes like I was checking out who was liking her pics and stuff.

[Little_Bumblebee]

It's such a huge turn-off when the guy blows up my phone for being busy. Sure, he might not have relationship experience, but he should still have experience communicating with people.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

You’ve never been guilty of that yourself?

[Little_Bumblebee]

No, not really. I'm always worried O seem too pushy and annoying. Of anything I write too little.
At most I double text if I'm worried they're not okay and such.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

It’s because I dated this girl and she was inexperienced like me so I thought it was normal to blow up a phone because she did that with me first

[Little_Bumblebee]

Well to an extent I think plenty of people do, no matter how experienced they are.
My first boyfriend texted me several times before we were dating.
Being all like
"Why aren't you replying?" Kind of thing, when I was with my grandma for the evening. That was so unattractive honestly. And I still find it unattractive.

But again, people are different. If I liked someone and they did it, I would most likely talk with them about it and hopefully they would stop it and relax a bit more.

[Guy13]

Yes as long as they are not ocd or know it all types

[melanieeeB]

No I wouldn't! I don't wanna teach someone how relationships work and shit. And I assume that with me being his first, he will be more emotionally attached to me and everything we experience together will be is magical first and not just a first time with me... I don't want that, I never want someone to emotionally depend on me ever again (unless it's my kid).
I don't wanna be the person who kinda "has to hold hands" with a guy and help growing up shit

[Sasha0426]

Ok, sounds like you had a bad experience.

[melanieeeB]

Yeaaah that for sure...

[Sasha0426]

Although, I’m curious how you were with your very first relationship.

[melanieeeB]

Pretty open, not too attached, I wanted him around but not too much lol and also pretty argumentative

[Sasha0426]

But, you believe anyone who has no relationship experience are all the same?

[Anonymous]

Nope, I am too old to be babysitting anyone.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Well not a youngster or anything. He just has his own reasons for not participating in relationships till now

[Shamalien]

Yeah so long as they don’t freak out so hard the break up with me

[AsaKyo]

It's ideal