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Emotional abuse is worse than physical abuse.
Other people can SEE physical abuse. They can SEE black eyes, they can SEE a broken arm, they can SEE brusies. It makes physical abuse something that can be dealt with much easier than emotional abuse because physical abuse IS predominantly obvious. The only real reason why abuse continues is because others don't get involved.
Unless Xavier and able to read minds people CAN NOT so easily SEE emotional abuse.
So emotional abuse can carry on for years - causing depression, anxiety, stress, and related issues (e. g. eating disorders), suicidal thoughts, self-harm, etc. - with few other people even having the tinest clue of what is going on because it's NOT very obvious.
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Emotional abuse is also in ways far more dangerous.
The typical abuser tries to isolate their victim. They try to make their victim alienate friends/family, & alienate colleagues so abusive tendacies are hidden from people that know the victim "best". Those are the people who will know best if something is wrong.
So consider when a victim of physical abuse can go into a hospital with a broken arm & a ER doctor may just question WHY does this person have a black eye too, WHY is this person nervous, WHY is this person agiated, WHY is this person behaving like every other victim of physical abuse - as said, it's far more obvious than emotional - that Dr has encountered over their career.
Versus someone attending for a "panic attack" because that is what a doctor who does NOT see the signs of emotional abuse is going to assume initially and/or constantly when the victim asks for an anti-anxiety drug like Ativan. They're having a panic attack, not that they're been abused. - +1 y
Sooo much truth… but is she abusing on purpose? Or is it unintentional due to mental illness… ?
I think it’s normal for a victim to make excuses for the perp - +1 y
@Charliefretz329 - the unfortunate bit is most victims came from a household that was abusive.
As such they think this behavior is normal and so they are more prone to getting involved with people that make others uncomfortable.
It's like a child raised by drug addicts, they can come to think drug abuse is normal behavior.
So someone raised in an abusive household thinks that abuse is just normal behavior.
It's why if you watch some of the cop sitcom shows you'll have the police arresting the abusive spouse and the wife is going bonkers. Because she doesn't understand having the shit beat out of her is not normal conduct. - +1 y
Ugh so true
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Emotionally abuse is just as bad in my opinion. It can happen to spouses, to kids and others that you love. With physical abuse, you nowhere the abuse is coming from. With emotional abuse, often times an individual starts blaming themselves. It's hard to turn around or break out of that self-destructive cycle after it happens. No one should have to endure either type of abuse.
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Emotional abuse can easily cause depression, anxiety, stress, and even suicidal thoughts- it's bad and shouldn't be tolerated.
I won't say which is worse, but I do wish more people considered emotional abuse as unacceptable as physical abuse.
This is the second question you have posted about this topic. This makes it seem (you don't have to answer or explain anything to me) like you're going through something and feel guilty for feeling the way you do about it.
If that is the case, just know that your trauma is valid and your pain is real. You are allowed to feel anything that you are feeling.43 Reply- +1 y
Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words might cut me deeply and possibly never heal.
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Thank you sir derps. I am
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No problem bro
No abuse is good. I'm not sure that one can be worse than the other. On the one had, physical abuse can physically heal, but can also leave scars/marks and also has an emotional component. Emotional abuse can linger and lurk in your mind and stay there forever. It's all just terrible.
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No, emotional abuse is WORSE than physical abuse. The bruises and scars of physical abuse will eventually heal, while emotional abuse may stay with the person for the rest of their life.
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I would say that it very well could be. I was fortunate in that I did not grow up with abuse. However I did suffer from emotional abuse from a few girlfriends as a young adult. I learned that at that point, it is time to leave the relationship.
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Yes... and it can be worse. It will fuck with your mind more than just your face.
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emotionally abuse can be worse than physical abuse. Trust me as I say I've been a life long victim of emotional abuse.
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Im so sorry to hear that… me also…
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I‘m not a doctor but I would say that doctors make a lot of money helping people from emotional abuse, with good reason. I would say they need help.
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Keep in mind that is the holiday season. People tend to lose their minds at this time of year, some to the extreme.
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@dustybiker - losing your mind over a Christmas gift isn't emotional abuse you dimbo
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@BlackBeauty90 Fuck off.
Emotional abuse can he worse.
It can leave mental scars that cannot heal
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So very true
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No..
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+1 yboth are terribly bad... and neither should be tolerated nor endured but... is not easy to do as to just say you shouldn't put up with either
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I been dealing with emotional and mental abuse for months now possibly years now that i look back and reflect and think about it. I been with her for 5 years and it's been getting worse each time with the emotional abuse manipulation and mental abuse
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Sooo sorry to hear that! I know how difficult it can be. Please feel free to reach out of you need to talk
they go hand in hand a lot and i dont think its right to compare different kinds of abuse
none should be tolerated
10 Replyemotional abuse is a form of psychological abuse. It is just as bad if not worse than physical abuse, physical wounds heal a lot faster than psychological ones.
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Very true.
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Physical is worse but i won't tolerate either
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If a bully hits me, the pain would vanish soon. If an assaulter yells at me vulgarly, I would remember that for ages.
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yes. physically you can heal. but it takes years to even begin to unwind emotional damage. some people never do...
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One can be worse than the other. It's not about whether it's emotional or physical, it's about how damaging it is.
10 Reply 1.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic. in my opinion one is as bad as the other. Personally I won't tolerate either.
10 ReplyWell duh
They're both terrible things and no one should go through it, regardless10 Reply- +1 y
Yes it is just as bad, emotional abuse is one of a narcissists favorite tactics.
10 Reply 424 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Both, horrible. I have seen both, but I would 'kill" a guy if I could for beating a woman, too hard for me to see and tolerate.
00 ReplyEmotional abuse is just as bad, it can be even be worse
10 ReplyI don't know but it's not fun
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No definitely no
591 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Both leave mental scars.
10 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. It still does come under domestic abuse.
10 Reply4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Yes, and no you shouldn't put up with it
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It is much worse
10 Reply Yes it's just as bad as physics abuse
20 Reply4.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Yes.
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Obviously yes.
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