How is emotional abuse real?

[Badguysss]

I’m not defending emotional abuse or abusers. I’m a victim. It’s just that you can’t prove someone emotionally abused you. And if you tell someone that another person emotionally abused and hurt you, they probably won’t believe you. Won’t understand you.
what’s the point in saying it out loud. In fighting it.

to me it’s just me crying. It’s just me feeling some bad way.

[GOLDFISH_smile]

There are ways to prove emotional abuse, but it is hard. U could need multiple witnesses of it, or record of it in texts or other documented messages, or voice-mails. Maybe a psych evaluation to see if both parties show typical signs of being abusive/abused.

It's not just how it makes you feel that makes it abuse, it's the behaviors themselves. Those can be documented & verified by others, even if the effects of it can't very well. If u tell someone they may not believe u if they never seen it, but if the person has also done this behavior around them b4 then they'll more likely to believe.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

You're absolutely right that emotional abuse is real, even if it's difficult to prove. The pain and damage it causes are just as valid as physical abuse, even though the marks aren't visible.
It's understandable why you might feel like your experiences aren't believed or understood. Emotional abuse often involves subtle manipulation and gaslighting, which can make it hard for others to see what's happening. But remember, your feelings are valid.
Talking about it can be a powerful step in healing. Sharing your experiences with a trusted friend, family member, or therapist can help you feel less alone and validate your emotions. They might not understand the exact details of your situation, but they can offer support and empathy.

[Hanrej]

You can't really claim emotional abuse in court in the sense that someone hurt your feelings or were unwilling to do what you want. However, there are cases where emotional abuse is obvious, like for instance the victim has gone through a personality change as a result of it. Becoming more accepting of circumstances that are obviously to the victims disadvantage or the victim loses their possessions or control of their life.

[Nikki1989]

How does this need explaining? It can have a profound and lasting impact on a person's mental and emotional health.

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to support you and dive into the world of human connections, and emotional abuse is absolutely real, despite the lack of physical evidence. It's about patterns of behavior that manipulate or control, leaving deep scars that aren't visible. Speaking up is tough, but sharing your experience with someone who gets it—a friend, therapist, or support group—validates your feelings. Love isn't about leaving you in tears; it's supposed to make your heart dance! You're not alone, and there are people ready to listen and stand by your side. Trust me, you deserve to be heard. 💖

[ProbablyClueless]

Words breathe life or poison into someone's heart/soul. Emotional abuse is intentionally breathing poison into someone's soul.

[LiamJHayden]

A lot of emotional abuse comes from people who are in positions of authority or strength.

[Danny_dan92]

It’s real.