um no but let me say this i had tones of dreams my ex when he was my boyfriend that he was sleeping with other girls in my dreams and i always caught him i didn't ask him to say sorry 3 years he cheated on me for 2 years so there my dreams where giving me clues sometimes dreams can make you see whats really happning or it can play with ure head or scare you but they always mean something when i was with him and i only ever had 3 happy dreams about us both but more bad ones where women where involved with him and i caught him everytime but i woukdnt ask him to say sorry i wouldn't know if it was true yet what i did to my boyfriend when i had these dreams was watch him like a hawk body language face actio s words his nerves because he wouldn't give me proof sometimes i would open his room door and listen to him talking in the toiket on his phone girls yip or sat beside him when his phone went with my earphones in took one out when he's been on the phone he seen the other one in so he thought i wasn't listning if it was a guy mate a could tell but this boyfriend i had was not the setiling down type i found out with the girls on the phone to lassie friends saying he loved them oh come and see you soon babe see he tbought a wasn't listning watch him cause it turned out mines was cheating on me for 2 years and sleeping with another girl throw me and the other one aswel so we broke up he chose her now he's cheating on her to with another girl 2 girlfriend's now fuck getting back with the likes of that but if i didn't know he was cheating and had a dream about it i wouldn't ask him to say sorry until a new for sure first
It would be a red flag to his mental state if he accused me of cheating and wanted me to say sorry just because he had a dream I'd cheated.
Initially, I'd probably laugh and think he was joking if he asked me to say sorry.😂
But if he was serious, I'd seriously question his mental stability. So I'd probably end it. Depending how long I'd known him for and how serious he was. I couldn't deal with someone that insecure.
Dreams draw their inspiration from the Dreamer's subconscious perceptions and such a dream manifests the Dreamer's deep-seated insecurity about their 'worth' and worthiness to 'earn' and KEEP their companion's fidelity. The problem lies NOT in YOUR fidelity but instead in the Dreamer's bedrock self-perception rooted in their earlier life experiences.
Beyond your ACTUAL fidelity there is NOTHING further YOU can do to reinforce and bolster THEIR self-esteem. Expect possible 'tests' and hyper-suspicion looking to support THEIR deeply-rooted distorted self-worthiness~
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Yeah, that's a RED FLAG. Obviously, this girl is whacked out and totally insecure and toxic. Come on people this is looney toon stuff, seriously?
No, that's that's really irrational. If that enough to break up with someone I doubt the relationship was really that stronge or serious to began with.
@AmeerX go with what your gut is telling you or sit back learn more about who she is that my explain things.. js..
@hissugarbuns well he knows if she is doing it for some time or just this once. Some girls can be so manipulative with this sort of thing. Calling her bluff is important if she is doing it to him for sometime now
@AmeerX True.. id be saying good bye to them.. i couldnt handle that as a female or male..
It's just a dream
LMFAO I canāt control someoneās dreams. If she was seriously that pathetic I wouldnāt be with her long
Hell yeah she is gone.
Kick those crazy bitches out. Make sure the door hits her crazy ass. š
Well, I donāt date women, but I doubt Iād break-up with a guy just because he dreamt about me cheating. However, if he was insane enough to actually accuse me of cheating BECAUSE of the dreamā¦ then Iād break up with him! Not so much because of the dream pre se, but because the guy cannot discern the difference between reality and dreams!
Well if she thinks I'm cheating when I've never cheated in my life... that sounds like a her problem. Soooo I don't know how i can prove to her I wouldn't cheat on her but if she's gonna keep accusing me of cheating, i'm done. :) My time is more valuable than listenin' some bish to call me a cheater.
No but I'm concerned she might be feeling insecure and she most likely needs therapy due to a triggering trauma from a possible past relationship where she was cheated on or it's possible she's cheating in her guilt is reaching her subconsciously in her dreams.
If she SERIOUSLY wants you to apologize, give her the boot because she's psycho and it will only get worse. Either way, that's an insecurity issue on her part. She's afraid of being abandoned, and she needs to address that herself. But as I said, if she really thinks you've wronged her or you need to apologize, then she's crazy.
i say yes an maybe!! i had nightmares every night for 4 years straight! My boyfriend was cheating with some chick in my dream i couldnt see the girls face! one day i got a call my best friend told me my boyfriend asked her too hook up behind my back they both hid it for over 3 years from me an her partner!! now i dont talk to her an my partner is in the dog house haven to rebuild trust it is very hard situation to deal with!!!
I would make her/him a nice tea and her/his favorite pancakes, apologize for my wrong doings and promise to never be in her/his dreams again.
Then i would wait for her/him to leave for work. Pack all my loot and get on a plane to another country.
I wouldn't want to upset the crazy😬
I don't know Iād just go with āaw babe Iād never cheat on youā instead of turning it into a discussion. Itās stupid to be mad at someone over a dream, but dreams like that can mess up your head a bit and make you insecure. So she was probably just looking for some comforting that it wouldnāt actually happen IRL.
I don't know the situation but I just doubt that sheās that mad/upset about the dream alone, so maybe think and look back at how you reacted when she first told you about it?
This is so dumb. If this happened to me I would laugh. If I had a dream my boyfriend/husband was cheating on me I would join in. My dreams always consist of me having sex I wouldn't even bat an eye at this. I'd be like, "Girl, move over." Lmao 😂
I would not break up with her at all that's just a dream either she was thinking about something maybe I would have said something about a pretty girl on TV all that is is a lack of communication or her mind was focused on something before she went to sleep and any girl would never have that problem with me anyway because I don't lie and I don't cheat I don't believe in that s***
It's not something for me to apologize about what they dream.
I would probably talk with them, how it must have been a super uncomfortable dream and ask if they were okay, or if there were anything in our relationship that worried them.
When a partner starts accusing you of cheating when you haven't, be careful. It's usually a justification for an action they either have, or are about to take.
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DoctorSex
no. good grief, utilize that as a fun exploration and discussion to strengthen your relationship.
If you handle everything as logical fact, you should get rid of the girlfriend and get a dog.
it's a human...
if this happens often because maybe she had a suspicion and so it made a way to her psych. i think it's understandable but if it happens often it's just irrational to be mad at your lover just because of a dream
Depends on how neurotic her personality type is. She'll get it into her head that I want to cheat on her, and I won't be able to convince her otherwise.
If she tells me and kind of makes a joke about it, then I wouldn't worry.
That reason alone won't be enough to break up with a girl.
Look she might be insecure but she is otherwise making me happy and a little clingy is better. No need for break ups over this I think
How are you gonna go cheat on her? Do you know how to get women naked and to jump into the bed with you?
So you can't. I've seen this before.
I mean some guys are all bark but no bite. Not saying i dare you because its pointless enough to act on some stranger on the internet orders. I was asking about the ways of your claim getting women.
Alright, fair enough.
Some girls think they're cute with that kind of childish stuff
No.
If she really pushed it and really treated it as if I really did something wrong and she really made an issue of it then yes, I may break up with her.
I'm surprised she even remembered her dream. Usually dreams are all out of kilter so I don't think anyone would take her seriously.
Itās just sometimes dreams inhabit you for a while and feel very real so you are upset at the person irl even if not justified itās normal
Absolutely. If sheās dreaming that you cheated on her, then she obviously knows that sheās going to do something one day that will make you want to cheat on her. Itās a red flag that sheās going to do something psycho.
She can dream about fucking all the homeless dudes in the entire city in a giant bukkake gang bang. As long as she doesn't do it.
You don't control thoughts or dreams, we control how we act on them.
If she's making me responsible for her dreams, yeah, I'm getting out of there.
If she is stupid enough to ever accuse me of cheating I would leave her, especially if she thinks her dreaming of something makes it real.
If she chose to think with her vagina and not with her brain, and chose to live in a fantasy world where she expected me to apologize, yeah i would leave her ass.
Yup. Out the door. Not playing around with that.
If she was just joking like "omg lol you cheated on me in a dream" then its whatever.
if she's angry at me for that? yeah. I can't control her dreams.
Break up ASAP... bitch is crazy and doesn't deserve any of my time.
Depending on her logic and how she's reacting to said dream, maybe.
Who the hell would break up with you over dream cheating? Theyāre crazy af 🙄 But, I heard thatās an underlying issue that needs to be talked about. Most dreams do have a meaning to them.
They sound like they have a below average IQ if they cannot tell the difference between a dream and real life
If she woke me up from my sleep and started screaming on my face like this SpongeBob picture than I would immediately dump.
I would tell her to get a handle on her insecurity, and that I'll be working late again but not to worry, and that I don't hear any weird gluk gluk sounds in the background at all, it must be her phone acting weird.
Probably, unless she laughed it off as the result of spicy food before bed or something. If she took it seriously I would.
If sheās not crazy and knows itās absolutely nothing more than a bad dream, I see no reason to break up.
Update: Well if sheās that crazy and wonāt listen to me, than yes.
No; of course not. I would just work very hard to prove her wrong, so that she never has those feelings or thoughts ever again!
@AmeerX I honestly wouldn't be bothered that much. It's just a dream.
I am sure I had dreams of me having romantic relationships with other than my romantic love, so definitely not.
Iād tell her, ādammit, Iām sorry. I didnāt even think youād find out, and it seems your dream girl is my dream girl. Hang on! What was she even doing in your dreams? Explain yourself, woman!ā
RUN! Donāt look back! Sheās a psychobitch from hell!
I was already married. I just put that in my bucket of reasons for divorcing her eventually
Because the simple fact is I tell them in the beginning what I do and what I'm about so there's no reason to lie for me anyways.
God Bless
How would I even have ended up dating someone like that?
She's ridiculous.
It might be a sign that our relationship isn't strong anyways.
People can have irrational moments. I wouldn't break up just because of this.
LOL they way she's making you say sorry... 🤣 🤣 🤣 She's done
If she is that insecure, that she forces YOU to say sorry? Red flag
This is absolutely nonsence. You will dream what you thinking about most so..
If she is serious, yes I would seriously consider breaking up with her. If not, laugh it off and move on.
No, but she might once I ridicule her unmercifully for getting mad at me for something I did in HER dream. 😆😆😆
If she straight up accused me, yeah. That dog won't hunt.
No! Sheād eventually realize not all dreams are true
Depends on if she takes her dream as reality or not.
Yup lol I need my peace not some delusional roller coaster
I would not be able to handle the logic. I'm out.
It may imply she has problems if she's serious.
Only saw after the update, if she makes a fuss about it, so yeah.
No I wouldn't break up with her but that would be a red flag. Cause I'd think she's insecure
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