um no but let me say this i had tones of dreams my ex when he was my boyfriend that he was sleeping with other girls in my dreams and i always caught him i didn't ask him to say sorry 3 years he cheated on me for 2 years so there my dreams where giving me clues sometimes dreams can make you see whats really happning or it can play with ure head or scare you but they always mean something when i was with him and i only ever had 3 happy dreams about us both but more bad ones where women where involved with him and i caught him everytime but i woukdnt ask him to say sorry i wouldn't know if it was true yet what i did to my boyfriend when i had these dreams was watch him like a hawk body language face actio s words his nerves because he wouldn't give me proof sometimes i would open his room door and listen to him talking in the toiket on his phone girls yip or sat beside him when his phone went with my earphones in took one out when he's been on the phone he seen the other one in so he thought i wasn't listning if it was a guy mate a could tell but this boyfriend i had was not the setiling down type i found out with the girls on the phone to lassie friends saying he loved them oh come and see you soon babe see he tbought a wasn't listning watch him cause it turned out mines was cheating on me for 2 years and sleeping with another girl throw me and the other one aswel so we broke up he chose her now he's cheating on her to with another girl 2 girlfriend's now fuck getting back with the likes of that but if i didn't know he was cheating and had a dream about it i wouldn't ask him to say sorry until a new for sure first
It would be a red flag to his mental state if he accused me of cheating and wanted me to say sorry just because he had a dream I'd cheated.
Initially, I'd probably laugh and think he was joking if he asked me to say sorry.😂
But if he was serious, I'd seriously question his mental stability. So I'd probably end it. Depending how long I'd known him for and how serious he was. I couldn't deal with someone that insecure.
Dreams draw their inspiration from the Dreamer's subconscious perceptions and such a dream manifests the Dreamer's deep-seated insecurity about their 'worth' and worthiness to 'earn' and KEEP their companion's fidelity. The problem lies NOT in YOUR fidelity but instead in the Dreamer's bedrock self-perception rooted in their earlier life experiences.
Beyond your ACTUAL fidelity there is NOTHING further YOU can do to reinforce and bolster THEIR self-esteem. Expect possible 'tests' and hyper-suspicion looking to support THEIR deeply-rooted distorted self-worthiness~
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Yeah, that's a RED FLAG. Obviously, this girl is whacked out and totally insecure and toxic. Come on people this is looney toon stuff, seriously?
No, that's that's really irrational. If that enough to break up with someone I doubt the relationship was really that stronge or serious to began with.
LMFAO I can’t control someone’s dreams. If she was seriously that pathetic I wouldn’t be with her long
Hell yeah she is gone.
Well, I don’t date women, but I doubt I’d break-up with a guy just because he dreamt about me cheating. However, if he was insane enough to actually accuse me of cheating BECAUSE of the dream… then I’d break up with him! Not so much because of the dream pre se, but because the guy cannot discern the difference between reality and dreams!
Well if she thinks I'm cheating when I've never cheated in my life... that sounds like a her problem. Soooo I don't know how i can prove to her I wouldn't cheat on her but if she's gonna keep accusing me of cheating, i'm done. :) My time is more valuable than listenin' some bish to call me a cheater.
No but I'm concerned she might be feeling insecure and she most likely needs therapy due to a triggering trauma from a possible past relationship where she was cheated on or it's possible she's cheating in her guilt is reaching her subconsciously in her dreams.
i say yes an maybe!! i had nightmares every night for 4 years straight! My boyfriend was cheating with some chick in my dream i couldnt see the girls face! one day i got a call my best friend told me my boyfriend asked her too hook up behind my back they both hid it for over 3 years from me an her partner!! now i dont talk to her an my partner is in the dog house haven to rebuild trust it is very hard situation to deal with!!!
I don't know I’d just go with “aw babe I’d never cheat on you” instead of turning it into a discussion. It’s stupid to be mad at someone over a dream, but dreams like that can mess up your head a bit and make you insecure. So she was probably just looking for some comforting that it wouldn’t actually happen IRL.
I don't know the situation but I just doubt that she’s that mad/upset about the dream alone, so maybe think and look back at how you reacted when she first told you about it?
If she SERIOUSLY wants you to apologize, give her the boot because she's psycho and it will only get worse. Either way, that's an insecurity issue on her part. She's afraid of being abandoned, and she needs to address that herself. But as I said, if she really thinks you've wronged her or you need to apologize, then she's crazy.
This is so dumb. If this happened to me I would laugh. If I had a dream my boyfriend/husband was cheating on me I would join in. My dreams always consist of me having sex I wouldn't even bat an eye at this. I'd be like, "Girl, move over." Lmao 😂
I would make her/him a nice tea and her/his favorite pancakes, apologize for my wrong doings and promise to never be in her/his dreams again.
Then i would wait for her/him to leave for work. Pack all my loot and get on a plane to another country.
I wouldn't want to upset the crazy😬
I would not break up with her at all that's just a dream either she was thinking about something maybe I would have said something about a pretty girl on TV all that is is a lack of communication or her mind was focused on something before she went to sleep and any girl would never have that problem with me anyway because I don't lie and I don't cheat I don't believe in that s***
It's not something for me to apologize about what they dream.
I would probably talk with them, how it must have been a super uncomfortable dream and ask if they were okay, or if there were anything in our relationship that worried them.
When a partner starts accusing you of cheating when you haven't, be careful. It's usually a justification for an action they either have, or are about to take.
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no. good grief, utilize that as a fun exploration and discussion to strengthen your relationship.
If you handle everything as logical fact, you should get rid of the girlfriend and get a dog.
it's a human...
if this happens often because maybe she had a suspicion and so it made a way to her psych. i think it's understandable but if it happens often it's just irrational to be mad at your lover just because of a dream
Depends on how neurotic her personality type is. She'll get it into her head that I want to cheat on her, and I won't be able to convince her otherwise.
If she tells me and kind of makes a joke about it, then I wouldn't worry.
That reason alone won't be enough to break up with a girl.
Look she might be insecure but she is otherwise making me happy and a little clingy is better. No need for break ups over this I think
Some girls think they're cute with that kind of childish stuff
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