Polls: Relationships

My opinion: faithfulness is not a legal obligation that you have because you are married. It's a moral obligation because you promised your partner that you would be exclusive. So the obligation begins as soon as you make that promise (and not just when you ar eventually married,) and it ends - even if you are married - when your partner no longer has any reason to expect that you will still honor that promise. For me, that occurs when you separate and are living in separate residences, unless you specifically agree to remain faithful during the separation.

What do YOU think?

Hello I'm 20 years old and in college majoring in business administration. I have a friend in college who is 23 years old and he's a veteran from the air Force. He recently told me that me and my girlfriend are not going to last and we're going to break up eventually. My friend told me that when he was younger, he was made fun of by girls back in school (including high school for being overweight). before the military, he tried to get with women, but he got rejected a lot by women. He's now fit and now he's trying to take advantage over it. He said that he's trying to hookup with most girls as possible. He only goes for girls who looks for relationships to use them and to make the girl feel bad once he's done with him (because the girl was looking for a relationship; not a hookup). He said it's not fair how back then when he was younger everyone else was getting in relationships while he was single. I keep telling him what he is doing is wrong, but he won't listen to me.

Ever had a good, happy relationship? Did it just happen or did you work to keep it going well?

Dependent: You prefer to be supportive role for your man/woman, if you need money or emotional support you hopefully can relay on your romantic partner. You realistically ain't the most self sufficient person but you are definitely one of the sweetest people and you can give people emotional assistance especially for your partner.

Independent: You the kind of man/woman who doesn't enjoy relaying on others to give you a life. Instead of needing your partner to help with money issues you prefer to be the person who makes his/her own money. You are definitely really self sufficient and definitely more assertive compared to your partner. But despite being very focused on yourself you ain't exactly the most friendliest individual who technically wouldn't be the best when it comes to emotional support because your personality is way too dominant for any support roles.

So basically my question to any men and women out there if you wind up in a relationship but in the relationship you have to become one of these which type of lover are you? Are you the dominant alpha male/female who prefer to take up the leadership role and try to earn the bacon for your honey?

Or all you the type who wants to play as the submissive in the relationship be the gentleman/lady who would be willing to give emotional comfort and help your partner in being the follower in exchange you don't have to worry about making money because your partner is earning money for the both of y'all?