Polls: Relationships

I was in a relationship with this guy for over 2 years, and things were great-he treated me like a queen. However, there were problems, and it got to a point I didn't think it was good for us to be together. So, I broke up with him a few weeks ago. (mind you, we had never broken up before)
I'm not looking for another boyfriend or sex from anyone. I like talking to my old guy, but I told him to not wait up for me. There are times where I want to get back and try it over again.
Lately, he's been really distant. I just want to call him or video chat but it never works out. He's always been a shit communicator. But it's worse, and I sense his anger at me for breaking it off. He games for hours with no remorse b/c he doesn't have a girlfriend who 'needs' his attention. I get that. And his car broke, so, he's been working on that after work and getting up early to commute with others.
We really haven't talked much in several weeks, and every time I try to reach out to him recently-I end up feeling jaded, basically, exactly how I did before I broke up with him.
He keeps saying he doesn't understand the break and wants to get back together-but why is he still shit at communicating? Why is nothing getting better? What is going on?
This month, I've been really emotional with my birth control affecting me hard. And all I've wanted is his comfort and companionship, and every time he rebuffs me, my pride is hurt-and I resent him.

I'm an introvert and I place a high value on quiet and restful time. I feel kind of allergic to people who talk all the time and need all of my attention. Sometimes I need someone who tells me to talk about my feelings and to not bottle things up inside. I go to parties but don't feel the need to just start random conversations with people I don't know. I also start to shut down after I’ve been active for too long. Now people have been telling me I should go for someone who "forces" me to talk about my feelings, someone who is sociable, etc.

If you're an introvert, should you be looking for another introvert, or do opposites attract?
Is it better to have another person who is an introvert because you understand each other?
Or do they need someone who helps them out of their comfortzone / meet new people / etc?
Should there be a balance?

What are your thoughts?

He told me about how his friend's girlfriend is bisexual and his friend lets his girlfriend bring home a girl and fool around with each other (without him). And then I randomly asked him "if i kissed a girl in the club, would u consider it cheating?"
And he responded "nope, as long as its not a guy. And if you want to go fool around with a girl just let me know and ill let you. i wouldn't mind that. just as long as its not a guy because then i would think of that as cheating and that would count as sex"
Wtf? Lesbians can have sex too right? And does this mean he doesn't mind sharing me? Why does he not care?

I said something about my boyfriend as a joke and then he got abit annoyed but he knows its a joke but then he slapped me gently and then hugged me and kissed me.
would you playfully slap your girlfriend? is this ok?

Would it mean anything?
My boyfriend put my picture on his lockscreen of his phone. I was surprised.

- Women like taller men, men like shorter women.
- Women like men that make more money, men like women that make less money.
- Women like men that are strong and muscular, men like women that are weak and soft.
- Women like men that are dominant, men like women that are submissive.

It seems unfair to judge women, when men biologically have preferences that are opposite to women's. The only differences are that men's preferences, by nature, are easier to attain, and men might be more lenient in their preferences due to the fact that their life might be better if they dated someone who... makes more money, for example, despite the fact that they don't genuinely prefer it.

With text messages, thoughts and everything

Are some things sacred or do you bare it all?