What hurts more? Being ignore or being treated with polite indifference?

[Anonymous]

Also please explain for which ever choice you choose. Have you ever been in one or The other situation? Or even both?

Being ignored

Being treated with polite indifference

[estoydorado1]

Neither, I'm usually the 1 to revert to polite indifference. I don't take myself seriously enough to take someone else's disinterest to heart. Both are confusing and at times concerning for a moment but then I either ask them why they're distant and work through it with them or move on.

[MaelaK]

Treated with polite indifference because when you are being obviously ignored you you are still paradoxically given some obvious kind of attention since they are making every effort to just avoid you, which appears very unnatural and forced out.

[Asker]

This is exactly what i was thinking! Thank you! This was my exact argument when I was debating this with a friend.

[MaelaK]

Haha you're welcome ;)

[Jaye234]

I been treated both ways and being treated with polite indifference is worse. They're insulting you but with nice words.

[Mega_illuminati]

i actually have experienced both. Anf both hurts like hell.

[Anonymous]

Being treated with polite indifference

[AutisticGurl]

I like being ignored... . 😇