Questions: Relationships

I used to like her until I moved in. She changed after I moved in. I have never hated an animal before especially dogs but I really hate his yorkie. She pees and poops everywhere in the house ever since I moved in. She pees on my stuff only never his. She has bit me twice when I was just trying to put her in the crate or in a separate room since she had was going all around the house peeing or pooping. I couldn’t handle it anymore just wanted her put up so I could focus on my babies only, but then she bit me. I just wish she would die or runaway at this point she makes me miserable bc I’m constantly cleaning up after her and I’m on edge with her biting me. I feel terrible thinking that bc my boyfriend loves her so much and I’ve never hated an animal.

After seeing the recent thread where a girl slapped her boyfriend across the face for something he said, and he broke up with her, I started thinking that maybe he deserved it, because what he said was pretty nasty.

I talked it over with my boyfriend and he disagrees, he said that you never elevate to physical over something someone said, it's only acceptable to hit someone who hit you first, and I said that sometimes, a smart slap across the face is a necessary response.

My boyfriend said "so, if you said something really bad, it's okay for me to slap you across the face?" and I told him that's different, woman aren't as strong as men.

Thoughts?